The "Love Account" Principle: One of the Most Critical Actions That's Easily Forgotten as You Get Busy and Are Together For Years: Episode 201

The "Love Account" Principle: One of the Most Critical Actions That's Easily Forgotten as You Get Busy and Are Together For Years: Episode 201

Every interaction is either a deposit or withdrawal from your partner's "love account". Meaning, every little remark you make or thing you say either deposits love and connection or it takes some away. The thing is, less "love deposits" are made for couples who are together a while or find themselves in busy seasons of life.

Most couples will go through seasons like these where they need to be making more deposits but they are actually making more withdrawals unconsciously. This isn't just a relational "nice idea" because the level of your love accounts determines how on edge, reactive, and snappy you are to each other. The hardest thing about having a low account is that you are much less willing to do the thing you need, to fill it back up…

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Express Yourself But Make Sure You're Not Relying on Your Partner For THIS: Episode 133

Express Yourself But Make Sure You're Not Relying on Your Partner For THIS: Episode 133

Being able to fully express yourself is one of the most important aspects of being in a relationship. This is what allows you to be known by and connected with your partner! This is what leads to a he...

23 Feb 202128min

The ONE Thing That Could Be Blocking Your Connection: Episode 132

The ONE Thing That Could Be Blocking Your Connection: Episode 132

The Couples Workshop is coming up on February 21st, 2021. Save your seats before it passes. To get a bonus copy of The Argument Hangover with it, enter this code when you check out: podcast2021 Your r...

18 Feb 20218min

Signs You Could Use Some Alone Time and How to Bring it Up Without Hurting Your Partner's Feelings: Episode 131

Signs You Could Use Some Alone Time and How to Bring it Up Without Hurting Your Partner's Feelings: Episode 131

Healthy relationships consist of both time together and time apart. Which of course can feel much harder (and even more necessary) right now. Perhaps you've been needing some "alone time," but haven't...

16 Feb 202132min

If You're Really Trying to Grow in the Relationship But Your Partner Doesn't Take as Much Initiative: Jocelyn Solo Episode 130

If You're Really Trying to Grow in the Relationship But Your Partner Doesn't Take as Much Initiative: Jocelyn Solo Episode 130

Don't get discouraged if your partner isn't taking as much initiative. Or if you're still running into challenges, even though you're really trying to 'work on things'. This episode will give you the ...

11 Feb 202121min

The Seemingly Innocent Things That You Should Never Say to Your Partner (and what to say instead): Episode 129

The Seemingly Innocent Things That You Should Never Say to Your Partner (and what to say instead): Episode 129

"You are being too sensitive, just get over it, that's not what happened."... Have you caught yourself or your partner saying things like that to each other? While you might say these from a seemingly...

9 Feb 202130min

Your Past is Not Fixed, You Can Change It: ADVANCED Aaron Solo Episode 128

Your Past is Not Fixed, You Can Change It: ADVANCED Aaron Solo Episode 128

You have heard it said that your past is in the past, or some version of don't cry over spilled milk. So of course that means there is nothing you can do about it right? What if we told you that your...

4 Feb 202120min

You're Not Upset For the Reason You Think You Are: Episode 127

You're Not Upset For the Reason You Think You Are: Episode 127

Small things in your relationship can be what build up and cause you to feel disconnected or upset with your partner. Of course when this happens there isn't room for the love, connection, and happine...

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