The "Love Account" Principle: One of the Most Critical Actions That's Easily Forgotten as You Get Busy and Are Together For Years: Episode 201

The "Love Account" Principle: One of the Most Critical Actions That's Easily Forgotten as You Get Busy and Are Together For Years: Episode 201

Every interaction is either a deposit or withdrawal from your partner's "love account". Meaning, every little remark you make or thing you say either deposits love and connection or it takes some away. The thing is, less "love deposits" are made for couples who are together a while or find themselves in busy seasons of life.

Most couples will go through seasons like these where they need to be making more deposits but they are actually making more withdrawals unconsciously. This isn't just a relational "nice idea" because the level of your love accounts determines how on edge, reactive, and snappy you are to each other. The hardest thing about having a low account is that you are much less willing to do the thing you need, to fill it back up…

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The 4 Keys to Know That You Are in the Right Relationship: Aaron Episode 110

The 4 Keys to Know That You Are in the Right Relationship: Aaron Episode 110

There are particular seasons within a relationship where you will ask yourself "is this the right relationship?". There is nothing wrong with this question at all. You might be trying to decide to pro...

26 Nov 202019min

Resist or Accept: Do You Understand Your Partner's Emotional Triggers Episode 109

Resist or Accept: Do You Understand Your Partner's Emotional Triggers Episode 109

If you haven't said this yourself, you've at least seen these "love" posts go around: "I accept all of you" or "there is nothing you could do for me to stop loving you"! While this is a great sentimen...

24 Nov 202028min

When You're the One Trying to Get THEM to "Work" on the Relationship: Jocelyn Episode 108

When You're the One Trying to Get THEM to "Work" on the Relationship: Jocelyn Episode 108

There's that feeling of trying to pull or "drag" your partner along when you want to grow and strengthen your own relationship. Here you are with good intentions to make certain areas of your relation...

19 Nov 202025min

What Healthy vs. Unhealthy Expectations Are In Your Relationship Episode 107

What Healthy vs. Unhealthy Expectations Are In Your Relationship Episode 107

If you are in a relationship, you have been disappointed at some point. If you are a human being even, you have been disappointed at some point in your life. Any disappointment in a relationship comes...

17 Nov 202033min

The Argument Hangover: How to Shorten the Time You Feel Disconnected After a Fight Episode 106

The Argument Hangover: How to Shorten the Time You Feel Disconnected After a Fight Episode 106

You have been in an argument before right? You have also had a food or alcohol hangover at some point in your life too right? Well, put these two together and you have the term for how you feel in tha...

10 Nov 202034min

Why Saying "I'm Sorry" Isn't Enough and What to Say or Do Instead Episode 105

Why Saying "I'm Sorry" Isn't Enough and What to Say or Do Instead Episode 105

"I said I'm sorry, can't we just move past this?" Is this a statement that you hear from your partner, or even one that you have said to them before? It most likely is and for some reason saying "I'm ...

3 Nov 202040min

It's Moving Week! How We Make Big Decisions Together And Why We Chose To Sell Our House And Move Across The Country Episode 104

It's Moving Week! How We Make Big Decisions Together And Why We Chose To Sell Our House And Move Across The Country Episode 104

Would you be willing to sell your house in 24 hours, and move across the country in under 3 weeks? Well we are, and we did! Whether that is something that you even thought about or not, the point is a...

27 Okt 202037min

The Art Of Giving Appreciation And Being Able To Let Yourself Receive Appreciation From Your Partner Episode 103

The Art Of Giving Appreciation And Being Able To Let Yourself Receive Appreciation From Your Partner Episode 103

Yes we know that when you see the word Gratitude or Appreciation you think "I've heard that a thousand times"! Yet giving and showing your partner appreciation is one of the secret ingredients to a tr...

20 Okt 202042min

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