The "Love Account" Principle: One of the Most Critical Actions That's Easily Forgotten as You Get Busy and Are Together For Years: Episode 201

The "Love Account" Principle: One of the Most Critical Actions That's Easily Forgotten as You Get Busy and Are Together For Years: Episode 201

Every interaction is either a deposit or withdrawal from your partner's "love account". Meaning, every little remark you make or thing you say either deposits love and connection or it takes some away. The thing is, less "love deposits" are made for couples who are together a while or find themselves in busy seasons of life.

Most couples will go through seasons like these where they need to be making more deposits but they are actually making more withdrawals unconsciously. This isn't just a relational "nice idea" because the level of your love accounts determines how on edge, reactive, and snappy you are to each other. The hardest thing about having a low account is that you are much less willing to do the thing you need, to fill it back up…

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Why You Would Have An Adult Temper Tantrum Rather Than Consciously Self-Express Episode 102

Why You Would Have An Adult Temper Tantrum Rather Than Consciously Self-Express Episode 102

Your immediate reaction to this episode might be "yes my partner definitely has some adult temper tantrums". Which is probably true at times, so we will of course go more into how you can HELP and SUP...

13 Okt 202035min

Feeling a Bit Like Roommates With Your Partner? Implement These 3 Things Episode 101

Feeling a Bit Like Roommates With Your Partner? Implement These 3 Things Episode 101

Of course this seems like something that could never happen, but being honest, do you feel like you and your partner are just high functioning roommates? We are not talking about your actual college r...

6 Okt 202029min

Love Is Not Enough: 3 Skills You Must Have As A Couple For Lasting Love Episode 100

Love Is Not Enough: 3 Skills You Must Have As A Couple For Lasting Love Episode 100

It's shocking and contradictory from what you've heard (or even believe), but LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH. You might ask: enough for what exactly? It's not enough for love to last or deepen within your relatio...

29 Sep 202027min

You Will Communicate Better In Just 5 Hours At The Couples Workshop Episode 99

You Will Communicate Better In Just 5 Hours At The Couples Workshop Episode 99

Hey friends, a special episode to give you straight-talk to get into action around your patterns, challenges, or pain points in your relationship. (Especially if you have already tried to have importa...

24 Sep 202011min

How Do You Deal With a Partner Who Shuts Down When They're Mad? Episode 98

How Do You Deal With a Partner Who Shuts Down When They're Mad? Episode 98

So here you are having a conversation with your partner, then with the slightest hint of emotion arising, they shutdown. They might stop talking altogether or say "I'm not talking about this, move on"...

22 Sep 202024min

Keep Your Upbringing or Past Relationships From Sabotaging Your Relationship Now Episode 97

Keep Your Upbringing or Past Relationships From Sabotaging Your Relationship Now Episode 97

Ever have those times in your relationship where things are going great, and then BAM... something sabotages it. You might not have identified it as sabotage, but that's often what it is and it shows...

15 Sep 202039min

We Talked About Ending Our Relationship This Weekend Episode 96

We Talked About Ending Our Relationship This Weekend Episode 96

Real talk....we had a 3 hour conversation this weekend about the possibility of ending our partnership. Not because we haven't been "happy" or that we don't love each other anymore... but because we ...

8 Sep 202041min

My Parents Are Still Married, Jocelyn's Got Divorced: How Both Upbringings Impact Our Marriage Now Episode 95

My Parents Are Still Married, Jocelyn's Got Divorced: How Both Upbringings Impact Our Marriage Now Episode 95

If you are like Aaron and had a loving upbringing with lots of support from your parents, that means you would be better set up for a strong relationship rather than if you were like Jocelyn and had y...

1 Sep 202036min

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