307. Childhood Trauma, Marriage, and Making Friends | Dr. John Delony

Dr. Peterson's extensive catalog is available now on DailyWire+: https://utm.io/ueSXh Dr. Jordan B. Peterson and Dr. John Delony discuss the destitution of loneliness, the salvation in connection, how to strengthen ties through listening, and why you should stop ignoring your flaws. Dr. John Delony is a bestselling author, mental health expert, and host of The Dr. John Delony Show. This caller-driven show offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John gives practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. Delony has two PhDs and over two decades of experience in counseling, crisis response, and higher education. In 2020 Delony joined Ramsey Solutions, a powerhouse multi-media company that brings together top minds in topics such as finance, real estate, mental health, and overall well being. Through their platform they produce shows, lectures, events, documentaries, books, and more. —Links— For Dr. John Delony: The Dr. John Delony Show: https://link.chtbl.com/delony Own Your Past, Change Your Future: https://bit.ly/3V3egYS Redefining Anxiety: https://bit.ly/3ApOTZk Instagram: @johndelony on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/johndelony/ - Sponsors - Birch Gold: Text "JORDAN" to 989898 for your no-cost, no-obligation, FREE information kit Elysium Health: Save 25% off Matter monthly subscriptions with code JBP25: https://explorematter.com/Jordan Black Rifle Coffee: Get 10% off your first order or Coffee Club subscription with code JORDAN: https://www.blackriflecoffee.com/ Hallow: Try Hallow for 3 months FREE: https://hallow.com/jordan — Chapters — (0:00) Coming Up (1:19) Intro (2:10) Story and the body (6:47) Memory, a flawed canon (10:04) Detailing anxiety (11:59) Loneliness (15:00) Sanity is distributed (17:16) The need for friendship (21:10) Ben Franklin, favors (23:10) The Corner Store technique (25:29) Teaching generosity (28:35) Your life is what you repeat, focus on that (30:41) Rebuilding a marriage (37:09) Having a daily shared image (45:05) Sex in marriage (50:00) What do you actually want? (55:08) Why you don’t know (1:00:49) High ordered goals (1:06:00) The greatest lost skill (1:07:11) The difference between listening and looking to solve a problem (1:16:10) Practical skills for listening (1:20:33) Categorizing the problems in your world (1:24:50) Seeking out your vulnerabilities (1:27:48) the importance of confession (1:31:40) Why labels are lackluster (1:34:42) The small scale scales exponentially (1:36:30) How we spread the movement // SUPPORT THIS CHANNEL // Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/jordanbpeterson.com/youtubesignup Donations: https://jordanbpeterson.com/donate // COURSES // Discovering Personality: https://jordanbpeterson.com/personality Self Authoring Suite: https://selfauthoring.com Understand Myself (personality test): https://understandmyself.com // BOOKS // Beyond Order: 12 More Rules for Life: https://jordanbpeterson.com/Beyond-Order 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos: https://jordanbpeterson.com/12-rules-for-life Maps of Meaning: The Architecture of Belief: https://jordanbpeterson.com/maps-of-meaning // LINKS // Website: https://jordanbpeterson.com Events: https://jordanbpeterson.com/events Blog: https://jordanbpeterson.com/blog Podcast: https://jordanbpeterson.com/podcast // SOCIAL // Twitter: https://twitter.com/jordanbpeterson Instagram: https://instagram.com/jordan.b.peterson Facebook: https://facebook.com/drjordanpeterson Telegram: https://t.me/DrJordanPeterson All socials: https://linktr.ee/drjordanbpeterson #JordanPeterson #JordanBPeterson #DrJordanPeterson #DrJordanBPeterson #DailyWirePlus Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices