“I Have to Be Perfect or Else…” - A Simple Way to Start Breaking This Pattern
In this episode... Do you feel like you have to be perfect just to be accepted? Or to avoid criticism or rejection? This unconscious belief can quietly fuel social anxiety, burnout, and relentless self-pressure In this short minisode, EFT Founding Master and psychotherapist Carol Look shares a powerful insight to help uncover where this pressure really comes from and how to begin letting it go 🎧 In this minisode: • The surprising childhood fear behind the need to be perfect • How perfectionism feeds anxiety, burnout, and low self-worth • A simple question that can help start breaking the pattern 🎧 This clip is from the full episode: “Releasing the Need to Be Perfect”. Listen to the full conversation here. 🔗 Free mini course to start easing social anxiety here: The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence. Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect! ● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ● Facebook ● Instagram ● X ● TikTok ● LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Warm regards, Seb
24 Apr 5min
Always Trying to Be Cool? Do This to Finally Feel Free
Always trying to be cool... but just end up feeling anxious? 😓 If you've ever felt the pressure to impress or be seen as “cool,” this video is for you. Discover why trying to be cool actually creates social anxiety, and how letting go of that need unlocks real confidence. 🙌 In this episode, you’ll: ✅ Learn how the pressure to be cool fuels anxiety ✅ See a real story of a client who broke free from it ✅ Do a short EFT tapping exercise to start releasing that inner pressure ✅ Discover how to feel calm, relaxed, and free to be yourself—even if others don’t think you’re “cool” 👋 Say goodbye to the exhausting try-hard act, and hello to effortless authenticity. 🔗 Get the free mini course, The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence 🎥 Watch next: How to overcome social anxiety - John's testimonialFrom Social Anxiety to Confident Business Founder in Five Months Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect! ● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ● Facebook ● Instagram ● X ● TikTok ● LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Warm regards,Seb
18 Apr 14min
Replay: Live EFT Coaching – Why Social Anxiety Makes You Feel Like You Have to Be Perfect (Tap-Along)
In this episode... You’ll hear a live EFT coaching session where a Club member opens up about a deep fear: sounding dumb in social situations. He shares how he constantly overthinks what to say, feels pressure to sound smart, and worries he’ll be judged if he messes up — a pattern Seb calls social perfectionism. As they tap through it, the pressure eases — and something powerful clicks: “I realized… it’s not others judging me. It’s me.” Social anxiety doesn’t disappear overnight. But every emotional shift brings you closer to ease. 🎧 Listen, tap along, and experience some relief today. 🔗 Want to try this technique yourself?Start with our free mini-course: The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect! ● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ● Facebook ● Instagram ● X ● TikTok ● LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Warm regards,Seb
10 Apr 13min
Releasing Shame: A Key to Social Confidence – with EFT Master Emma Roberts
Shame is at the core of social anxiety. Yet, most people don’t realize it. Emma Roberts does. She’s lived it. Once held back by deep embarrassment and fear of being seen, Emma now trains therapists around the world. In this episode, she shares: How shame manifests and why it often goes unrecognized Her raw, personal story (including hiding in a bathroom before a training!) Why EFT Tapping is uniquely powerful for releasing shame and anxiety A simple Heart Anchor technique you can use immediately What makes healing possible, even after decades of suffering Emma is a world-renowned EFT Master, Clinical Hypnotherapist, and NLP Master Practitioner. She co-founded Integrated Energy Techniques, which blends energy psychology, coaching, and cognitive psychotherapy. “Don’t waste time thinking you’re stuck. You can take control of your life and change it faster than you might think.” — Emma Roberts 🎧 Listen and discover how shame can be released gently and effectively, without forceful exposure therapy or years of struggle. 👉 Want to start your own journey to social ease? Grab the free “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course and reduce anxiety today: https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect! ● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ● Facebook ● Instagram ● X ● TikTok ● LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Warm regards,Seb
3 Apr 51min
Replay Live EFT Coaching Fear Of Judgment
In this episode... You'll hear a live EFT coaching session where James' social anxiety spiked to an 8 out of 10, but within minutes of tapping, his intensity dropped. By the end, he felt totally calm. We’ll break down the insights he gained, including this powerful realization: “Rather than others judging me, it’s really me judging myself.” Social anxiety doesn’t disappear overnight, but every small shift brings you closer to ease. Listen, tap along, and experience relief for yourself!
13 Mar 24min
TAT + EFT = Faster Social Anxiety Relief
In this episode... Struggling with social anxiety and looking for an effective way to build confidence and feel at ease? In this powerful interview, Sebastiaan Van Der Schrier sits down with Tapas Fleming, the creator of the Tapas Acupressure Technique (TAT), to explore how combining TAT with Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT Tapping) can support your journey toward social confidence. 👉 What You'll Learn in This Podcast: *❓ What is TAT and how does it work? * 🔗 How TAT complements EFT for deeper emotional relief. * 🗣 Real-life success stories from people overcoming social anxiety. * 🎥 A live demonstration of TAT that YOU can follow along with! * ✨ The surprising spiritual aspect of TAT and its profound impact on emotional healing. 🎥 Listen until the end for a guided TAT session you can try right now! ______ 🚨 Join the Social Confidence Club – Doors Opening Soon! 🚨 🎯 Ready to build lasting social confidence? The Social Confidence Club opens for enrollment in the third week of February 2025—but only for ONE week! After that, it closes for an entire year. Inside the Club, we tackle specific social anxiety issues like: 😳 Facial blushing 😰 Fear of being judged or embarrassed 😟 Fear of becoming anxious in public 💭 Negative beliefs like "I’m not good enough" 🔒 Patterns like perfectionism and people-pleasing 💬 And much more! We combine the best of psychology, TAT, EFT tapping, and other powerful techniques to help you build lasting social confidence. 🔗 Pre-register now at https://bit.ly/socialconfidenceclub to be the first to know when doors open! ______ 🌐 Learn More About TAT with Tapas Fleming: Interested in diving deeper into TAT (Tapas Acupressure Technique)? 🔗Visit Tapas Fleming's official site: TATLife.com ______ 🤓 Scientific Evidence Research Links: https://eftuniverse.com/research-studies/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36438382/ https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2023.1195286/full Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect! ● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ● Facebook ● Instagram ● X ● TikTok ● LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Warm regards,Seb
7 Feb 48min
Turning Anxiety Into an Ally: The Power of Acceptance with Gene Monterastelli
In this episode... What if your anxiety wasn’t the enemy but an ally? I sit down with EFT specialist Gene Monterastelli from the Tapping Q&A podcast to explore the power of acceptance in overcoming social anxiety. We dive into why anxiety exists, how our system is actually trying to protect us, and how embracing acceptance can ease social discomfort. Plus, Gene guides you through a simple yet powerful tapping exercise to help shift your mindset and bring more ease into your life. 👉 Learn more from Gene at TappingQandA.com (And oh… if you're looking for the best way to completely overcome social anxiety, stay tuned. The Social Confidence Club is opening soon! 😉) ______ 🤓 Scientific Evidence Research Links: https://eftuniverse.com/research-studies/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36438382/ https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2023.1195286/full Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect! ● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ● Facebook ● Instagram ● X ● TikTok ● LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Warm regards,Seb
31 Jan 23min
Overcoming Social Anxiety: Why the 7-Day Challenge is the Key to Your First Shift
In this episode... I’m sharing my personal journey of overcoming social anxiety and how EFT tapping played a major role in my transformation. I’ll explain why the 7-Day Social Confidence Challenge is such a powerful tool for breaking through the barriers that hold you back from social ease, even if nothing has worked for you before. You’ll hear about my first life-changing shift with tapping and why it’s the key to unlocking lasting results. Plus, I’ll share a powerful client breakthrough story that shows how subconscious resistance can keep you stuck—and how you can overcome it. If you're ready to experience your first shift and begin your journey to social confidence, sign up for the 7-Day Social Confidence Challenge today! For a limited time, you can join for just $7—an offer available only for the next 72 hours. Don’t miss out—take the first step toward a more confident, social you! Hurry, this offer ends soon! Get the 7-Day Social Confidence Challenge (Was $99, now just $7 – offer ends on Jan 26, 23:59 EST!) 🔗 https://bit.ly/7daysocialease ______ 🤓 Scientific Evidence Research Links: https://eftuniverse.com/research-studies/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36438382/ https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2023.1195286/full Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you’ll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let’s connect! ● SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ● Facebook ● Instagram ● X ● TikTok ● LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 💪 Warm regards,Seb
23 Jan 19min
