I Slept with 70 Men in 10 Months and It Made Me Realize I’m Asexual (ft. Robyn Silber)

I Slept with 70 Men in 10 Months and It Made Me Realize I’m Asexual (ft. Robyn Silber)

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa)⁠ sits on the couch with Robyn Silber — a former Google software engineer who slept with 70 men in 10 months and then realized she’s asexual. Robyn opens up about her “slut era,” sexual health, discovering demisexuality, navigating autism and dating, and why she’s now working to help lonely men build real connection.

We talk about:

  • Dating younger men and having 70 sexual partners in her first 10 months in NYC

  • Sexual health: chlamydia, BV, yeast infections, UTIs, and learning to advocate for herself

  • Why only ~5 of 70 partners made her orgasm and how she wasn’t asking for pleasure

  • The difference between physical attraction and real sexual desire

  • How asexuality doesn’t mean low libido or lack of masturbation

  • Her current relationship: emotional connection, sensuality, and slow intimacy

  • Why everyone should have a “slut era” and what to keep in mind

  • Her idea to launch an online support group for men who aren’t getting laid

  • The male loneliness crisis and how empathy can rebuild connection

  • Why men should focus on friendship, hobbies, and social skills before dating

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Sex, Identity & Starting Over at Any Age (ft. Lucy Hart)

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Sex Communication: If You’re Not Talking, You’re Guessing (ft. Elizabeth Ashford)

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with certified holistic sex educator and Beyond the Beez founder Elizabeth Ashford for a deeply practical, funny, and no-BS conversation about talkin...

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Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with pleasure coach, intimacy educator, and professional Dom Sir Marvelous for a conversation about real dominance, fake Doms, pleasure-centered sex,...

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Vulnerability Is Hot: Sex, Masculinity, & Oversharing (ft. Emi Larraud)

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with musician and content creator Emi Larraud for a raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation about vulnerability, masculinity, oversharing on the i...

1 Jan 56min

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Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with hypnotherapist and intimacy coach Kate Shelor for an in-depth conversation about erotic hypnosis, the subconscious mind, and how our thoughts, b...

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Decentering Penetration: Tantra, Orgasms & Expansive Sex (ft. Davia Frost)

Decentering Penetration: Tantra, Orgasms & Expansive Sex (ft. Davia Frost)

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with tantric practitioner, pleasure educator, and soon-to-be author Davia Frost for a deep conversation about decentering penetration and expanding w...

18 Des 202547min

Why Taking a Break From Sex Might Be the Secret to Better Sex (ft. Catherine Drysdale)

Why Taking a Break From Sex Might Be the Secret to Better Sex (ft. Catherine Drysdale)

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets back in bed with sex & relationship coach Catherine Drysdale for the most honest, nuanced conversation about voluntary celibacy you’ve ever heard. Together ...

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How to Give the Best Handjob of His Life (ft. Ashley Manta)

How to Give the Best Handjob of His Life (ft. Ashley Manta)

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with sex educator, pleasure expert, and the Handjob Queen herself, Ashley Manta (@cannasexual), for the most comprehensive handjob episode ever recor...

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