171. How To Rewire Your Attraction To Pursue Healthier Connections w/ Louise Rumball

171. How To Rewire Your Attraction To Pursue Healthier Connections w/ Louise Rumball

In this episode, we’re getting into why we’re so often drawn to the wrong people and what it takes to break out of those old attraction patterns for good. If you’ve ever found yourself chasing a certain vibe or dynamic in dating (even when it never really works out), this conversation is going to hit. I’m joined by Louise Rumball, host of the Healing Honeys podcast (formerly Openhouse) and creator of Daily Devotion, a somatic wellness studio helping women feel better in their bodies. Louise shares her own experience of rewiring her attraction patterns, how she met her current partner, and what healing looks like in real life. We also talk about embracing single life, the importance of a slow burn, decentering romance, what to focus on if you’re at the start of your healing journey, and what growth looks like even after years of therapy and self-work.


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252. How to Break Out Of The "Should I Stay Or Go?" Loop In Relationships

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