196. The Psychology of Mixed Signals and How to Stop Obsessing

196. The Psychology of Mixed Signals and How to Stop Obsessing

In this episode, I talk about one of the most frustrating parts of modern dating: mixed signals. I break down why people send mixed signals, why they can feel so addicting (even when we know better), and how to spot them early so you don’t waste your time. You’ll hear real listener examples of hot-and-cold behavior, learn the difference between mixed signals and a slow burn, and get practical strategies for deciding when to walk away. We’ll also cover what clear, green-flag signals actually look like so you can focus on what you do want. This week’s dating dilemma is from a listener who feels like a late bloomer and worries that their lack of dating experience is holding them back from finding a meaningful relationship.


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219. The Truth About Long Distance Early Dating w/ Drea Renee

219. The Truth About Long Distance Early Dating w/ Drea Renee

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