3806: Reclaiming a Scarcity Mentality by Colin Wright of Exile Lifestyle on Conscious Living

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3279: David Cain explores the paradox of desire, illustrating how our cravings for experiences, like dining out or vacationing, often lead to disappointment rather than the joy we anticipate. He reflects on the Buddhist teaching that true happiness comes not from fulfilling desires but from understanding and managing them. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.raptitude.com/2016/05/what-we-want/ Quotes to ponder: "The ease itself we can find much more readily by understanding our wants rather than scrambling to relieve them." "Getting what you want leads to the same problems as not getting what you want." "We suffer whether we get the thing or not. If we don’t get it, we suffer the loss. If we do get it, we still suffer because we know we will lose it." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

9 Aug 202412min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3278: Mark Manson explores strategies to maintain motivation, emphasizing the power of rituals, minimizing distractions, and uncovering deeper reasons for lack of drive. By implementing the “Do Something” Principle, you can start with small actions that lead to bigger changes, making motivation a more consistent force in your life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://markmanson.net/how-to-get-motivated Quotes to ponder: "The distractions of the digital age hack the vulnerabilities of our psychology. They give us little microbursts of dopamine that feel good in the moment, but amount to very little in the grand scheme of things." "I’ve argued for years now that facing uncomfortable emotions is precisely what makes us grow as individuals." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

8 Aug 202410min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3277: Mark Manson challenges the common belief that motivation precedes action, proposing instead that taking action can generate motivation. He introduces the "Do Something" Principle, emphasizing that even small actions can lead to greater inspiration and drive. This mindset shift can help overcome inertia and achieve goals, regardless of emotional readiness. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://markmanson.net/how-to-get-motivated Quotes to ponder: "Action isn’t just the effect of motivation, but also the cause of it." "If you lack the motivation to make an important change in your life, then do something, anything really, and then harness the reaction to that action as a way to begin motivating yourself." “You can become successful at something without knowing what you’re doing. You can become successful at something without having much particular talent at it. But you can never become successful at anything without taking action. Ever." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

7 Aug 202410min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3276: Helene Massicotte's reflection on the "Fast Forward Effect" explores how mindful attention can enrich our lives, making time feel fuller and more meaningful. By contrasting her past tendency to mentally escape with her present focus on being fully present, she illustrates the transformative power of awareness in everyday experiences. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.freetopursue.com/blog/2016/2/17/the-fast-forward-effect Quotes to ponder: "Paying attention is our own tool to disrupt the space time continuum; we can speed up or slow down our lives at will." "Being present allows us to make fear-inducing decisions sooner because we stop medicating ourselves with thoughts that we can ignore the present." "Our memories are etched based on how much attention we pay to a given moment, any moment." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 Aug 202411min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3275: Jennifer from SimplyFiercely.com shares her journey of embracing minimalism and confidence by defying societal expectations. She discusses how letting go of material possessions and societal norms has empowered her to live authentically and pursue her dream of a nomadic lifestyle. This personal story challenges the conventional path and encourages others to find the courage to chase their own dreams. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.simplyfiercely.com/confidence-minimalism/ Quotes to ponder: "When I embraced minimalism I no longer had a place to hide, and had no choice but to face my insecurities head on." "It’s an accomplishment like running a marathon or writing a novel and something to be proud of." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

5 Aug 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3274: Shirley from DaringLiving.com offers heartfelt advice for overcoming feelings of depression, emphasizing self-compassion, the importance of expressing emotions, and spending quality time alone. By engaging in personal hobbies, continuous learning, physical exercise, and reducing social media use, she provides practical steps to regain control and improve one's mental well-being. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://daringliving.com/depressed-feel-better/ Quotes to ponder: "Let yourself take a break from your friends’, family’s, and work’s expectations of you. Go home, pour yourself a glass of wine, be vulnerable and cry. It’s okay." "Pick one day out of your busy schedule as your ‘me-day.’ No one can disturb you and you do not need to accommodate anyone on that day." "Learn from your emotions and transform them into opportunities for you to grow." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

4 Aug 202410min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3273: Elly McGuinness encourages readers to embrace the benefits of outdoor fitness, emphasizing how activities like hiking, biking, and playing can boost physical health and mental well-being. She highlights the importance of connecting with nature, advocating for outdoor time to enhance vitamin D intake, enjoy fresh air, and experience the 'feel good' factor of being active outdoors. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ellymcguinness.com/blog/outdoor-fitness/ Quotes to ponder: "Being cooped up at a desk, driving to and from work, the shops, or the gym, and generally spending time indoors can take up most of the waking hours for many people." "Sunshine is the most effective way for your body to get [Vitamin D]. You need it for calcium absorption and in turn strong, healthy bones." "There is no such thing as ‘bad weather‘, just inappropriate clothing. So splash in those puddles, let the rain refresh you, and enjoy the wind through your hair." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

4 Aug 20248min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3272: Dr. Kelly Flanagan reveals that the secret to life isn't about avoiding pain but embracing it. By acknowledging and walking through our pain, we gain freedom and power, opening ourselves to the full experience of living. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drkellyflanagan.com/what-your-dentist-knows-about-the-secret-to-life/ Quotes to ponder: "Our pain is the secret to life. We can’t even eat unless we’re capable of feeling it." "The willingness to walk into our pain sets us free, and I think that kind of freedom makes us a powerful people." "The whole wide world is a banquet table, and there is a feast waiting for you." Episode references: Peter Rollins: https://peterrollins.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3 Aug 202412min