“This Is Just Who I Am” | When Your Husband Refuses To Change, BPD Healing, And Lusting After Others (Problem communicating pt2)

“This Is Just Who I Am” | When Your Husband Refuses To Change, BPD Healing, And Lusting After Others (Problem communicating pt2)

Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.

In this 2 Be Better Podcast episode, Chris and Peaches kick things off with updates on their upcoming December 5–8 coed couples retreat, breaking down details on bunks, private rooms, who can come solo, and why these weekends are so powerful for couples and individuals who want real relationship growth. Then they dive straight into part two of a heavy email from a wife in a long term marriage, struggling with BPD, emotional safety, and a husband who refuses to change because “this is who I was when we got married.” They walk through her written letter, line by line, unpacking abandonment triggers, preloading divorce conversations, the difference between repair and resolution, and how to phrase “I” and “we” language so you are fighting for the relationship instead of fighting each other. If you are in a mentally exhausting marriage where every argument gets turned back on you, you feel like you are doing all the emotional work, or your healing journey is not supported by your spouse, this episode will feel painfully familiar and give you a clearer framework for what healthy communication and real change should look like.

From there, they expose the darker side of a husband who openly says he will not evolve, threatens to weaponize the kids in a divorce, and treats his wife as a conversational enemy while she tries to get her BPD into remission and protect her mental health. Chris and Peaches talk hard truths about when it is time to leave, what it actually means to be “too different,” why you cannot raise your husband like a toddler, and why real partnership requires both people to grow, not just the one with a diagnosis. They also respond to a separate email about a boyfriend constantly commenting on other women’s bodies, celebrity crushes, and homemade porn in relationships, giving straight talk on lusting after others while in a relationship, self pleasure, and why “hall passes” and “it is just a movie” slowly destroy self esteem and intimacy. If you are craving blunt marriage advice, BPD relationship insight, and no nonsense coaching on emotional safety, porn, and standards in your relationship, this video will give you language, clarity, and the permission to stop settling.


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2 Be Better Podcast - Embracing Change and Challenging Norms

Welcome back to the "To Be Better" podcast! In Episode 29 of Season 2, we’re excited to dive into a raw and heartfelt discussion about ownership in marriages and relationships. Picking up from where we left off in the previous episode, we explore what it means to truly care for your partner and the importance of putting in the effort to maintain a healthy relationship.This episode, recorded live with our Patreon members, offers a unique, unfiltered look into our lives. Despite Chris recovering from an illness, we share our recent experiences, including Chris’s new motorcycle and our memorable beach ride. Our personal updates blend seamlessly with thoughtful advice, making this episode both relatable and inspiring.One of the standout moments is our exploration of vulnerability. Chris opens up about his evolving thoughts on male vulnerability, while Peaches provides a counterpoint by discussing the strength and perception of vulnerability in women. Our candid conversation aims to break down societal expectations and encourage personal growth.We also tackle a listener email about broken trust, cleanliness, and the struggles of personal growth. We offer practical advice on how to better oneself and improve relationships, highlighting the importance of communication and accountability.In this episode, you'll find a mix of serious insights, personal stories, and a bit of fun banter. It's a perfect blend for anyone looking to better understand relationships and personal development. So, tune in and join us on this journey of discovery and growth. And remember, life is a choice, so choose to be better.Don't miss out on the live experience—check out our Patreon for early access and uncut episodes filled with even more candid moments and community interaction.Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

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The Garden Proper care and feeding of a Husband. Pt 3

The Garden Proper care and feeding of a Husband. Pt 3

This is from Peaches Garden through our Patreon. We are going to give you a little bit of content over the next few weeks so you can see what we have been doing there. Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

12 Jul 202429min

2 Be Better Podcast - A talk with 18 year old me

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In this episode, I share crucial life lessons and personal growth tips while reflecting on my 18-year-old self. Key topics include brain development, health and fitness, financial wisdom, mental health, relationships, emotional regulation, and the importance of a supportive social circle. Join our community on Patreon for deeper discussions. Like, share, and subscribe for more insights!Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

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2 Be Better Podcast - Relationship Challenges

2 Be Better Podcast - Relationship Challenges

Welcome back to the "To Be Better" podcast! In Episode 28 of Season 2, we dive into a compelling and emotional listener email that explores the difficulties of broken trust and navigating relationship challenges. This episode, recorded live for our Patreon members, delves deep into the complexities of trust, forgiveness, and personal growth.The email we discuss comes from a listener who bravely shares his journey of overcoming misdiagnoses, addiction, and tumultuous relationships. His story highlights the impact of infidelity, communication breakdowns, and the struggles of balancing work and family life. We provide thoughtful advice on accountability, the importance of setting standards, and the power of effective communication in building and maintaining healthy relationships.We also share some personal updates, including Chris’s recent motorcycle purchase and a memorable beach ride. Despite Chris recovering from an illness, our commitment to providing heartfelt and practical advice shines through.Tune in for an in-depth exploration of personal growth, relationship dynamics, and the steps needed to rebuild trust after it’s been broken. Join us as we offer our unique perspectives and support to help you navigate your own relationship challenges.Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

8 Jul 20241h 23min

The Garden Proper care and feeding of a Husband Pt 2

The Garden Proper care and feeding of a Husband Pt 2

This is from Peaches Garden through our Patreon. We are going to give you a little bit of content over the next few weeks so you can see what we have been doing there. Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

5 Jul 202454min

2 Be Better Podcast S2 Ep27

2 Be Better Podcast S2 Ep27

Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

1 Jul 20241h 22min

The Garden Care and Feeding of a Husband Pt 1

The Garden Care and Feeding of a Husband Pt 1

This is from Peaches Garden through our Patreon. We are going to give you a little bit of content over the next few weeks so you can see what we have been doing there. Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

28 Jun 202442min

2 Be Better Podcast - Love Stories

2 Be Better Podcast - Love Stories

Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

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