A Really Good Cry

What does it mean to truly heal—and why do so many of us struggle to even begin? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, I sit down with healer, author, and spiritual educator Devi Brown for a deeply moving conversation about grief, joy, trauma, and the slow, sacred process of coming back to yourself. We talk about how healing often starts in survival mode, why joy takes practice, and how performative self-help can block real transformation. Devi shares powerful insights on breathwork, somatic healing, feminine softness, and devotion as a path to lasting change. Whether you’re navigating burnout, craving stillness, or trying to reclaim your worth, this episode is an invitation to soften, to feel, and to begin again—with compassion and intention. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:24 Writing about grief and joy 02:32 The Deep Connection Between Self-Worth and Joy 05:12 Joy Is a Choice You Make Every Day 07:14 How to Start Healing When You're Still in Survival Mode 11:37 Learning Without Action Builds the Ego 12:46 Devotion Starts When You See Yourself as Sacred 18:23 Why You’re Still Hurting After “Doing the Work” 22:47 You Can’t Heal If You’re Always Saving Others 24:48 What Are Mudras and Why Are They So Powerful? 34:45 Why the 'Girl Boss' era left women disconnected 38:13 Breath is your anchor in hard moments 45:36 Create beauty through your senses 48:03 What softness really means 50:57 Why “I Am” affirmations need to be personal 57:37 The real difference between wisdom and knowledge 01:01:26 A simple formula to discover your purpose Follow Devi Brown: https://www.devibrown.com/ https://www.instagram.com/devibrown/?hl=en https://youtube.com/@DeviBrownWell-Being https://www.linkedin.com/in/devibrown/ Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

20 Mai 1h 12min

Have you ever had a friendship end without any real explanation? This week on A Really Good Cry, I’m opening up about one of the hardest lessons I’ve had to learn as an adult: not every friendship is meant to last, and sometimes, you won’t get a reason why. I’ll share the story of a connection that felt full of potential, only to end without explanation. It left me feeling confused, a bit heartbroken, and honestly, kind of spiraling for a while. More than just a story of rejection, this episode is about what it taught me—about communication, grace, and how much energy we give to people who’ve already let go. I’ll also walk through the tools and mindset shifts that helped me move forward, and the surprising ways I’ve found deeper, more aligned friendships since. If you’ve ever felt confused, hurt, or quietly heartbroken over a friendship that faded too fast, this one’s for you. You’re not alone—and you’re not the only one still trying to understand. What We Discuss: 00:00 Introduction 00:46 Friendship rejection 09:37 How I learned to prioritize the right people 10:59 Why making friends as an adult is so hard 12:53 Friendship is Just like dating 14:01 Why you should always give people a second chance 16:37 Figure out the key qualities you want in a friend 18:20 Find friends in the most unexpected places 22:01 Don’t wait for a friendship to happen 24:23 How to meet friends in the real world 25:52 The joy of connecting friends from different circles 27:05 Why noticing your flaws can save friendships 29:24 How to be more present with your friends Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukiaSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

13 Mai 29min

In this episode of A Really Good Cry, I speak with Dr. Mindy Pelz, a fasting researcher, bestselling author, and expert in women’s health. Dr. Pelz shares the latest science on what happens in the body after a fast—and why your first meal can significantly influence the results of your fasting routine. We explore how fasting impacts the gut microbiome, the types of foods that support recovery and metabolic health post-fast, and which foods can diminish the benefits of your efforts. Dr. Pelz also discusses the role of fermented foods and essential minerals like magnesium and zinc in optimizing fasting outcomes. You’ll gain insight into common fasting mistakes, how fasting protocols should differ between men and women, and how stress and hormonal shifts—especially during menopause—affect digestion and nutrient absorption. Whether you’re new to fasting or refining your approach, this episode offers evidence-based strategies to help you break your fast in a way that supports long-term health and vitality. What We Discuss: 00:00 Introduction 00:51 From Chiropractics To Writing Books 06:01 Should Women Fast? 10:08 Why You Should Rest Before Your Period 12:33 Trust Your Own Instincts 15:48 Best Time To Fast 25:21 Men Fast Vs Women Fast 28:08 Hormonal Imbalance In Women 41:35 Best Foods To Eat After Fasting 50:33 The Grandmother Hypothesis 54:27 Supplements For Women 58:27 Detox Everyday! 59:46 Nurture Yourself To Eliminate Stress 1:07:35 Hormone Replacement Therapy Follow Dr. Mindy: https://drmindypelz.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-mindy-pelz https://youtube.com/@drmindychiropractic https://www.facebook.com/share/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.mindypelz Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukiSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

6 Mai 1h 10min

When was the last time you checked in with what you’re carrying—emotionally? As nature shifts into spring, it’s the perfect moment to pause and take stock of what’s going on inside. This week on A Really Good Cry, I’m exploring the idea of emotional spring cleaning—clearing out the feelings, habits, and stories that no longer serve us. I’ll share gentle, grounding practices that help me create space for clarity and ease, from breathwork and journaling to small rituals rooted in the season. We’ll talk about how to release what weighs us down—grief, resentment, or energy that isn’t ours to hold—and how that release can open the door to deeper healing and self-connection. If you’re feeling the pull to let go, reset, and make space for something new, this episode is your invitation to begin. What We Discuss: 00:00 Introduction 00:58 Start of something new 02:05 Breathwork for grounding yourself in the moment 04:27 Why do you need clean energy in every area of your life 05:19 What is the meaning of spring? 07:50 Nature will ALWAYS show you what you need 10:03 Journal prompts to help you let go of emotional baggage 11:40 Why letting go requires love 13:05 Free writing 13:36 Spring is planting new seeds 16:34 The power of your environment on your energy 18:31 Fire rituals 21:38 More journaling prompts to go deeper this season 23:22 Emotional detox starts with better boundaries 24:14 Commit to something new 25:01 Seasonal change 26:39 Let go of what no longer serves you Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukiaSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

29 Apr 29min

Why do we stay in the wrong relationships? Is it fear, habit, or the belief that love is supposed to be difficult? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, I sit down with relationship coach Jillian Turecki for an honest, insightful conversation about why we get stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns—and how to break free from them. We talk about recognizing red flags early, the psychology behind staying too long, and what it truly takes to create a relationship that’s built to last. Jillian also shares practical advice on healing after heartbreak, letting go with grace, and attracting the kind of love that feels aligned and sustainable. Whether you’re moving through a breakup, reflecting on past patterns, or simply trying to understand love more deeply, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and perspective. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:48 You're the Common Denominator in Every Relationship 03:38 How to Recognize Your Unconscious Dating Patterns 08:52 The Biggest Relationship Mistake People Make 11:15 How to Find Meaning After a Breakup or Divorce 17:51 “Don’t Deny Yourself the Privilege of Moving On” 21:15 Are You Fighting Your Partner—or Your Past? 24:13 Stop Blocking Love 26:13 Love vs Lust 30:56 Why Love Feels Different in Your 20s vs. 30s 32:00 Relationship Deal Breakers 36:45 Can You Really Be Friends with an Ex? 40:09 Is Love Alone Enough to Make a Relationship Work? 45:16 The First Step to Rebuilding Your Relationship with Yourself 47:07 The Secret to Keeping Chemistry Alive in Your Relationship 49:11 You’re Punishing Your Partner Without Realizing It 51:25 Cool Girl vs Good Girl 56:26 Marriage Is Just the Beginning of Self-Work 58:38 Answering audience questions Follow Jillian: https://www.jillianturecki.com/ https://www.facebook.com/jillianturecki http://instagram.com/jillianturecki https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049 https://www.tiktok.com/@jillian.turecki?lang=en https://www.threads.net/@jillianturecki Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

22 Apr 1h 6min

What if better health isn’t about adding more to your plate, but about doing less — with purpose? In this episode, I share five gentle yet powerful practices to support your health naturally and intentionally. From simple daily detox rituals and mindful movement to nourishing your body with whole foods and lightening your emotional load, these shifts are meant to feel good — not overwhelming. Rooted in both modern wellness practices and the timeless wisdom of Ayurveda, this episode is a reminder that true balance doesn’t come from extremes, but from tuning in and honoring your body’s rhythm. Let’s return to what’s essential — one mindful step at a time. What We Discuss: 00:00 Introduction 03:59 Gentle detoxing 07:18 Importance of tongue scraping 11:32 Drinking warm water with CCFT 14:21 Abhyanga 15:59 “Eat less from a packet, more from the Earth” 18:56 3 Ingredients to Always Avoid in Packaged Food 19:46 Spices as food and medicine 21:11 Move your body and mind 25:35 Dream and Do 28:26 Drink water and mind your own business Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukiaSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

15 Apr 31min

Do you feel like you’re doing everything right—eating well, staying active, and trying to keep your life in balance—yet still struggle with feeling sluggish or out of sync? The issue might be your gut. In this episode of A Really Good Cry, I chat with Dr. Steven Gundry, a renowned heart surgeon and expert in gut health, about why your gut plays a bigger role in your well-being than you might realize. We explore how gut health impacts everything from your mood and mental clarity to digestion and inflammation. Dr. Gundry also reveals why some “healthy” foods might actually be harming your gut—like how your daily protein shake could be causing more harm than good. He shares practical tips for healing your gut, boosting your energy, and improving your overall health with simple, everyday changes. Tune in and learn how taking care of your gut can impact your body and mind. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:05 What is the gut microbiome? 05:49 Your gut microbiome is smarter than you think 07:56 Ancient wisdom knew this about your gut 16:05 How to Tell If Your Gut Is Unhealthy 21:19 Are You Eating the Right Foods for Your Gut? 33:34 Protein Trends Might Be Harming Your Health 38:54 The Best & Worst Oils for Your Gut Health 47:37 Signs You Have Leaky Gut (Without Realizing It) 51:57 The Truth About Antibiotics Follow Dr. Steven Gundry: https://drgundry.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drstevengundry/ https://www.facebook.com/DrStevenGundry/ https://twitter.com/drgundry https://www.youtube.com/@DrGundry/featured Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

8 Apr 1h

Are your evenings truly helping you unwind—or just keeping you distracted? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, we’re diving into 8 simple ways to stop wasting your evenings and start using them intentionally. From understanding the different types of rest to breaking free from the instant gratification trap, these small shifts will help you reclaim your nights without feeling overwhelmed. Whether you want to read more, build a new habit, or just feel more fulfilled at the end of the day, this episode is for you. What We Discuss: 00:00 Introduction 01:06 How to not waste your evenings 02:55 Effects of watching TV 03:55 Are you happy with how you’re spending your time? 04:36 The Reward System Trap 07:38 Different types of ‘tired’ and ‘rest’ 10:14 You don’t need to watch TV just because others do it 10:41 Have a pre-committed strategy 12:11 Decide in the morning how you’ll spend your evening 12:24 Create friction for distractions 13:38 Identity-Based Habits 14:07 Bargain with yourself 14:44 Habit stacking 16:47 Choose your entertainment with intention 18:29 Our moods and actions can be separated 21:45 Try changing your routine Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukiaSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

1 Apr 23min