After Work Drinks

It’s been a whirlwind of a week, featuring a trip to Switzerland, a 12-hour stint in the emergency room and – of course – the (sort of) reunion of Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston at the SAG Awards. But what we’re really talking about this week is heartbreaks - heartbreaks of the big, earth-shattering, how-the-hell-do-I-get-over-this variety. How do you navigate a break-up in your late 20s, when it feels like everyone else is getting engaged and having babies? Are women conditioned to fear being alone? Why is it that single men are seen to be ‘choosing’ to be single, while single women are still seen as ‘unable’ to find a partner? And why do we continue to feel as if break-ups are personal failures? You can follow us on Instagram: @afterworkdrinkspodcast, @grceoneill, @isabelletruman, or join our closed Facebook group, After Work Drinks Podcast. Please rate, review, subscribe and tell your mom about us.Recommendations:Podcast: Today in Focus - where did it all go wrong for Harry and Meghan?Show: Morning Wars/The Morning Show, Line of Duty Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

22 Jan 202048min

There was plenty to dissect in Hollywood this week, with the Oscar's releasing their embarrassingly middle-aged-white-dude nomination lineup and Harvey Weinstein's trial beginning in New York. Why can't the entertainment industry get a handle on their diversity problem? And why - after more than 80 women levelled accusations at Weinstein - is his trial hinging on the testimony of only two women? Plus, the topic we were desperate to sink our teeth into: Meghan and Harry's shock decision to step away from their 'senior royal' title. We unpack the serious aspects involved - the sexist treatment of MM in the media, for one - but also the most bizarre stories to emerge from 'Megxit', including surprise appearances from Oprah, Jessica Mulroney and Madame Tussauds (?).And you asked, we answered: This week Grace shares another embarrassing childhood incident involving physical activity.Recommendations: A crash course in climate change https://grazia.com.au/articles/bushfires-climate-change-government-action/Netflix: Before the Flood Elizabeth Wurtzel:'Prozac Nation''On Her One Night Stand Of A Life' in New York Magazinehttps://www.thecut.com/2013/01/elizabeth-wurtzel-on-self-help.html'When Beauty Fades' in ELLEhttps://www.elle.com/life-love/sex-relationships/advice/a10010/failure-to-launch-when-beauty-fades-323090/Podcast: Fresh Air - Boys & Sexhttps://choice.npr.org/index.html?origin=https://www.npr.org/2020/01/07/794265007/boys-sexPodcast: The Daily - The Case Against Harvey Weinstein Part 1 & 2 https://www.nytimes.com/2020/01/09/podcasts/the-daily/harvey-weinstein-trial.htmlPodcast: The Witch Hunt by The Guardian Australiahttps://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/series/witch-huntBook: Three Women by Lisa TaddeoMovie: Parasite (2019) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

15 Jan 202049min

Climate change is directly responsible for the severity of the Australian bushfire crisis and if change isn’t made now, the devastation we’re seeing - lives lost, homes destroyed, a billion animals dead - is just a taste of what’s to come. So what do we do? To explain exactly what’s happening to the world, why the Earth’s temperature is rising, how this is going to cause irreversible damage and Australia’s huge part in the climate emergency, we did a crash course in climate change. Izzy spoke to a scientist and climate change expert to help us understand, in simple terms, exactly what’s happening in Australia right now. Plus, in a moment where everyone is feeling helpless and useless, we break down all the simple, real-world ways you can contribute to slowing down (or eradicating!) the climate crisis. Listen now and please share what you learn - or this episode - with your friends.THE STATS: The global average temperature is currently warming 5x faster than ever beforeAs the Earth’s temperature continues to rise, crises such as the bushfires go from bad to catastrophic.Australia is the world’s third-largest exporter of fossil carbon, behind only Saudi Arabia and Russia. This means Australia is one of the worst countries in the world when it comes to impacting global warming.CO2 has contributed more than any other driver to climate changeWHAT NEEDS TO HAPPEN Huge change worldwide to ensure the Earth’s temperature doesn’t rise above a further 1.5 degrees.Global warming is due to greenhouse gas emissions, the biggest contributor to this being carbon dioxide which is caused mainly when we burn fossil fuels like coal, oil and gas or cut down and burn forests.Government needs to make huge changes immediately, especially in Australia. Individuals need to think actively every day and implement the below. TO DO: Demand government action to lessen fossil fuel emissions in Australia (and wherever you live in the world), plus school up on what the government is doing (or not doing) currently. Eat less meat, whether that’s something like Meat Free Mondays, just eating one meal with meat per day or just eating meat when you eat out and not buying it at the supermarket. Instagram recipe inspiration: @deliciouslyella, @livegreenhealthy, @thedeliciousTake public transport, walk, bike places, cut down on flights (and Carbon offset the flights you do take! It’s surprisingly affordable. Websites like Websites like Co2nsensus offer services.)Avoid packaging - carry a tote bag, carry a keep cup, avoid straws and avoid buying anything packaged where you can (even if it’s recyclable!). Plus, look for things made from recycled materials.Plant trees! If you can’t physically plant trees, go to One Tree Planted or Trillion Trees, charities which will plant trees on your behalf.Consume less. Shop secondhand and don’t order multiple sizes of clothes online so you can return one (they often get thrown out, not resold!)Links to read:Australia and fossil fuel: https://www.theguardian.com/environment/commentisfree/2019/sep/24/australia-has-dodged-global-attention-on-fossil-fuels-because-of-assiduous-diplomatic-effortsAvoiding meat and dairy is the single biggest way to reduce your impact on the Earth Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

7 Jan 202049min

As we crack open this bottle of cab sav - simultaneously breaking our ‘dry January’ resolution, we discuss whether our never-ending quest towards self-improvement, something which is never more prevalent than at the beginning of a new year, is actually just making us hate ourselves. Should we throw out our self help books in favour of giving less of a shit? Plus, if our recent digital detoxes are anything to go by, 2020 looks to be the year of being ‘medium online’ - where we’re not completely offline but not living on there, either. And why all men should follow Obama's suit and watch 'Little Women.' If you’re picking up what we’re putting down, please rate, review, subscribe and tell you mom about us. You can follow us on Instagram: @afterworkdrinkspodcast, @grceoneill, @isabelletruman, or join our closed Facebook group, After Work Drinks Podcast. Recommendations: Podcast: How to Fail with Andrew ScottShow: Morning Wars - Apple TVMovie: Long Shot - NetflixBook: Malcom Gladwell - Talking to Strangers 'Being offline is a massive luxury': The case for a half-hearted digital detox - Sydney Morning Herald https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/being-offline-is-a-massive-luxury-the-case-for-a-half-hearted-digital-detox-20191219-p53lla.htmlImproving ourselves to death - the New Yorkerhttps://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2018/01/15/improving-ourselves-to-deathI can’t even trust myself anymore - New York Times https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2019/12/27/opinion/sunday/internet-trust-2010s.htmlHow to be medium online - Man Repeller https://www.manrepeller.com/2019/12/medium-online.html Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

3 Jan 20201h 4min

We’re going to play the ‘better late than never’ card today regarding one Harry Styles - the man who needs no introduction (apart from to Izzy) and has finally stolen our hearts. Aside from the obvious (his face), we're discussing how men like Harry are setting a new precedent when it comes to style and sexuality and how he and men of his ilk (here's looking at you Timothee Chalamet and Donald Glover) are offering a much-needed update on what modern masculinity can look like. Plus, Jia Tolentino's internet-breaking essay on 'Instagram Face' has us investigating the many troubling side-effects of a culture obsessed with self-betterment. If you read only one thing this week, make it this.Recommendations:Adam Driver, The Original Man in The New Yorkerhttps://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2019/10/28/adam-driver-the-original-man?verso=trueThe Age of Instagram Face in The New Yorkerhttps://www.newyorker.com/culture/decade-in-review/the-age-of-instagram-faceYou can follow us on Instagram: @afterworkdrinkspodcast, @grceoneill, @isabelletruman, or join our closed Facebook group, After Work Drinks Podcast. If you’d like to show your support, please rate, review and subscribe and share AWD <3 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

18 Des 201952min

We're back, baby! After a three week break we're (partially) refreshed and ready for a whole new year of AWD - live from our new digs in London and featuring our brand spanking new theme song. This week we've crammed a lot in: Justin Timberlake's cheating scandal (and the art of the celebrity apology), a conspiracy theory about The Crown season three and an autopsy on *that* Prince Andrew interview. We also deep-dive on the Golden Globes' embarrassing lack of female director inclusions, fan-girl over Finland's cool new Prime Minister, and offer and endless reel of book/TV/podcast recommendations.We hope you love it. Follow @afterworkdrinkspodcast on Instagram, and don't forget to rate, review, subscribe and tell your friends (and mom).Recommendations:The Descent of Man by Grayson PerryMourning My Friend, Princess Diana by Clive James in The New Yorkerhttps://www.newyorker.com/magazine/1997/09/15/requiem-clive-james?verso=trueYears and Years (2019)Dear Sugars PodcastTan France on 'Getting Curious With Jonathan Van Ness'The Crown Season 3 (2019)Marriage Story (2019) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

11 Des 201951min

Up this week is a very timely discussion about life changes, career moves and redefining success off the back of both of us quitting our dream jobs to pursue new dreams, plus how men’s magazines are changing to stay relevant in a post Me To era and the mummy blogger scandal that proves just how toxic social media can be. Today’s ep is our last before a three-week break before we kick off year two of AWD, live from London where we'll be working fulltime side-by-side with a mulled wine in hand and no more technical difficulties. We’ll see you there <3 You can follow us on Instagram: @afterworkdrinkspodcast or join our closed Facebook group, After Work Drinks Podcast. Recommendations: Super Soul Conversations - Arianna Huffington The Daily - ‘Because of Sex’ I Was the Fastest Girl in America, Until I Joined Nikehttps://www.nytimes.com/2019/11/07/opinion/nike-running-mary-cain.html?smid=nytcore-ios-shareAs Men Are Canceled, So Too Their Magazine Subscriptionshttps://www.nytimes.com/2019/11/02/style/mens-magazines.html Hannah Gadsby on how masculinity is changing https://www.gq.com/story/voices-of-the-new-masculinityCatch and Kill by Ronan Farrow Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

13 Nov 20191h

Hello! We're back and we come equipped with a *very* serious AWD announcement. Plus, a Bachelorette debrief, why the world is turning on Juuls, your new must-watch TV series and a brief deep-dive into the sexual politics of affairs and cheating. Is is a feminist issue? As always, please rate, review, subscribe and share and follow us on Instagram @afterworkdrinkspodcast @isabelletruman @grceoneill. You can also join our closed Facebook group, 'After Work Drinks' podcast for further recommendations.Recommendations:The Promise and Peril of Vaping: Parts 1 and 2 on 'The Daily' How Doctors Uncovered the Vaping Crisis - The Journal podcast Surviving R.Kelly (2019)Modern Love (2019)The State of Affairs by Esther Perel‘I walked out on my husband and kids for true love — and I’m not going to live with aching regret’ https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/i-walked-out-on-my-husband-and-kids-for-true-love-and-im-not-going-to-live-with-aching-regret-8xnjkgqpd?fbclid Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

6 Nov 201952min