#171 Elements of Healthy Relationships in Recovery with Randi Gray
What does a truly healthy relationship look like after infidelity and betrayal — and is it even possible to get there? In this episode, Hali sits down with Dr. Randi Gray, Licensed Professional Counse...
6 Aug 45min
***BONUS: Choosing Different Mini Series: The Conversations I Wish Every Parent and Child Could Have with my 2 Adult Daughters, Mataia and Morgan
This is the first episode of the Choosing Different mini-series of conversations between Hali and her two adult daughters, who were both teenagers when their family was in the thick of betrayal and dy...
1 Aug 24min
#170 "Why It Sometimes Gets Worse Before It Gets Better — And What Actually Helps After Disclosure"
You finally know the truth. So why do you feel worse?If you're the betrayed partner and your fear, anger, and grief have grown rather than shrunk since disclosure, the first thing Hali wants you to he...
30 Jul 18min
#169 The Spiritual Intelligence Behind Real Change After Betrayal with Dr. Yosi Amram
When someone betrays a partner and then starts doing "the work," the person who was hurt is left with an exhausting question: is this real, or is he just saying the right things? In this episode, host...
23 Jul 46min
#168 Apology vs. Amends: Why "I'm Sorry" Isn't Enough After Betrayal
An apology is a moment. Making amends is a process - and confusing the two is one of the most common places betrayal recovery gets stuck.In this solo episode, Hali breaks down the real difference betw...
16 Jul 15min
#167 Masculine and Feminine: Why Getting the Balance Right in Your Relationship Matters with Tyler Patrick
There's a dynamic underneath a lot of disconnected relationships that almost nobody names — and when it collapses, it can quietly erode intimacy. In this episode, I'm joined by Tyler Patrick, Licensed...
9 Jul 42min
#166 Why Shame Is the Enemy of Accountability — And What to Do About It with Jacob Fletcher, CMCH, CSAT
One of the biggest obstacles to healing after betrayal isn't a lack of love — it's shame. When the person in recovery floods with shame, they lose the ability to truly listen, hold space, or take acco...
2 Jul 40min
#165 The Groundhog Day of Disclosure: Why the Same Questions Keep Coming
After betrayal, one of the most exhausting patterns couples hit is what I call the Groundhog Day of disclosure: the betrayed partner asking the same questions again and again, while the partner who ca...
25 Jun 19min
