130: The Solution to Avoid Trading One Bad Coping Mechanism for Another
It's very easy for men to switch one bad coping mechanism (pornography) for another (food, video games, social media, TV, etc.). Some people might see those things as far less harmful, so they allow t...
1 Feb 202419min
129: How to Help Her Feel Secure Again in the Relationship After Pornography Use
In a relationship, having a strong feeling of security is so important. When pornography addiction or habit is discovered, it completely undermines the security that she feels. This causes lots of iss...
25 Jan 202424min
128: How to Overcome Feelings of Unworthiness and a Lack of Self Love
Lots of people struggle with feelings of low self worth, unworthiness, inadequacy and a lack of self love. Affirmations and being positive doesn’t seem to stick because we don’t actually believe the g...
18 Jan 202431min
127: The Key to Addressing Her Sadness If It Feels Like You’re Not Making Progress
Have you ever had a good day with your spouse, then out of nowhere, you get hit with a wave of deep sadness. Then you share the sadness and the conversation spirals and he doesn’t say much in response...
11 Jan 202426min
126: The Damage of Pornography Use and Deception Can Be Healed – Here’s How
When a pornography addiction or habit is discovered in a relationship, it causes significant damage. Trust is broken, there's a lack of emotional safety, and it often causes a woman to redefine the en...
4 Jan 202426min
125: He Wants to Move Forward, But She’s Still Hurting and Her Wall is Up
Most people don’t want to stay in pain any longer than they already have. They want the process to speed up, to find closure and peace sooner, and move forward with a feeling of resolution… But what i...
28 Des 202318min
124: When Seeking Validation Leads to Pornography and/or Physical Infidelity
What do you do when you struggle with feelings of needing validation from a source outside of yourself? Whether it’s sexual attention from a woman, making a lot of money, doing and accomplishing thing...
21 Des 202324min
123: Harvard Professor Shares a Critical Factor in Successfully Quitting Pornography
Have you ever wanted to know exactly what it’s going to take to eliminate pornography and have a connected relationship with your spouse? As I have initial calls with men, I often hear them say they a...
14 Des 202317min
