112. Why Do We Obsess Over (and Repeat Date) Narcissists?
After a toxic relationship, it can be common to obsess over what happened - and even date more people who present the same symptoms of personality disorder. Why? This episode explores some potential r...
30 Aug 202416min
111. Narcissists Red Flags, Red Lights or... Red Herrings?
Knowing red flags is helpful in avoiding narcissists BUT if we conflate them with red lights, it can PREVENT us from actually moving forward. It is vital to know the difference between red flags we le...
19 Aug 202430min
110. 6 Levels of Lying & The 2 That Narcissists and Cults Use
There are 6 levels of lying, from the least bad to the absolute worst. Once we recognise them, we are less easy to manipulate and be gaslit. The levels are: 1. Being wrong (technically not lying) 2. H...
7 Aug 202436min
109. Spotting A Narcissist's Lie: Story Time
Laura was a guest in a guesthouse. But she acted as though we were her guests: she bossed people around, and was obnoxious. But one lie she told uncovered the truth, and she turned on me. This is the ...
29 Jul 202430min
108. How I Deprogramed Someone After A Toxic Relationship
She had had a bad breakup after 20 years with someone, 15 of which he had been obnoxious and presented symptoms of having a personality disorder. And she could not wrap her head around this. But I fig...
19 Jul 202427min
107. Narcissists' Mesh Network of Lies - and Narrative Collapse
Narcissists rely on lies that are propped up by other lies. Why? It makes it easier for them to manipulate us. It is hard to believe one person can lie so much. But also, by relying on a "mesh network...
12 Jul 202430min
106. 8 Signs We Have Been Brainwashed
Narcissists and cults, whether spiritual or political, brainwash people in order to control them. Fortunately, there are certain tells that we have been brainwashed. And once we are aware of these, it...
20 Jun 202430min
105. Do NOT Read Between the Lines With Narcissists - Ask This Instead?
Narcissists lie, a lot. And for the lies to work, they rely (pun?) on us "reading between the lines". While this is a good idea with healthy people, it is a terrible idea with liars. So instead, when ...
14 Jun 202429min
