
#116: Have Dating Apps Ruined Gay Dating?
Dating apps were supposed to make finding love easier.More options.More access.More chances to meet someone.And in many ways — they did.For many Gay & Bi men, dating apps weren’t just convenient. They...
13 Mar 10min

#115: Sexual Preferences Doesn't Have to Define Your Relationship
There’s nothing wrong with enjoying what you enjoy sexually.There’s nothing wrong with identifying as a top, bottom, vers, or side. And there’s nothing wrong with wanting clarity in the bedroom.But so...
6 Mar 10min

#114: The TRUTH About Preferences in Gay Dating (It's Not What You Think)
You are allowed to like what you like.You’re allowed to feel attraction without justifying it. And you’re not broken for having preferences.But what if some of your preferences aren’t just about attra...
27 Feb 6min

#113: Why Gay Men Lose Interest When Someone Wants Them
Have you ever met someone who was emotionally available, consistent, and genuinely interested in you… and instead of feeling excited, you felt yourself pulling away?You’re not alone. And you’re not br...
20 Feb 8min

#112: Why Dating Apps Aren't Working for You (And How to Fix It)
Are dating apps killing your confidence?Feeling invisible, ghosted, or like you’re just another torso in the scroll?In this episode, I’m breaking down the real solution to dating app burnout, ghosting...
13 Feb 18min

#111: Too Many Bottoms? The Truth About Gay Dating Roles & How the Apps Skew Our Perception...
The biggest myth in modern Gay dating? That there’s a shortage of tops.But what if the “Bottompocalypse” isn’t a real crisis — it’s a visibility illusion caused by shame, social conditioning, and dati...
6 Feb 10min

#110: Are Gay Men Size Queens?
Too many of us in the Gay community feel pressure to “measure up.” From dating apps to p*rn to locker room culture, we’re constantly being told that size equals worth. But what if this obsession is ac...
30 Jan 13min

#109: The Reason Gay Men Are Obsessed with Appearance
Why are so many Gay men obsessed with how we look?This episode gets real about the deeper wounds driving body image issues in the Gay community — from the silent shame we carry to the toxic ripple eff...
23 Jan 12min



















