Evan Swings

I have learned that going into an event with no expectations is often the best way to ensure I'll have fun. It was no exception on Valentines Day when Eva and I attended a club event, knowing full wel...

28 Mar 35min

Something that continues to be an absolute favorite of both Eva and myself: reclaim sex. In this episode, I'll discuss why it has become such an enjoyable and dare I say necessary part of our lifestyl...

14 Mar 33min

In this episode you'll hear about a solo adventure that was not only enjoyable, but unusual...at least for me. I'll tell you all about it and reinforce how respecting the dynamics of other couples is ...

28 Feb 36min

There are plenty of pet peeves I have but one related to the lifestyle is flaky couples. In this episode, I answer a few listener questions and then discuss a baffling situation involving a couple tha...

14 Feb 32min

I often do this podcast with the hope that my stories, rantings, ramblings, and ravings are relatable to others and help them navigate the lifestyle. But the two topics I discuss today left me with m...

31 Jan 33min

Our New Years celebration was "neutral." A very enjoyable evening with plenty of disappointment. Also: how something as simple as wearing a fedora could be a catalyst for fun with another couple. Plus...

17 Jan 39min

I have some brief updates from previous episodes and then I dive in to what money can't buy in the lifestyle. Spoiler alert: it's confidence.

3 Jan 38min

My fourth episode in a seemingly endless series! Eva and I are kind of shy when it comes to in-person meetings. While some prefer going to clubs and events to meet new couples, we prefer to stick to l...

20 Des 202543min