
S18 E303: He's Amazing… But His Theology Is Different
Today we’re diving into the three tiers of theological differences in dating, as JJ and Kait Tomlin unpack how to navigate convictions, preferences, and deal breakers when you and your partner don’t s...
12 Aug 49min

S18 E302: Spiritual Leader IN Dating
Today we’re diving into spiritual leadership in dating as we unpack what it really looks like in relationships, the red flags to watch out for, and how servant leadership changes the game! Need 1:1...
5 Aug 44min

S18 E301: Emotionally Intelligent vs Emotionally Healthy
Today we’re diving into the difference between emotional intelligence and emotional health, why this distinction is critical for dating, and how to spot the traits that really matter for healthy relat...
29 Jul 43min

S18 Ep300: How Do You Know When to Stop Trying With Someone?
Today we break down the main reasons we stay in unhealthy relationships, from dating for potential to the sunk cost fallacy, and give practical questions to help you know when it’s time to move on! ...
22 Jul 24min

S18 E299: But What If I'm Not Attracted?
Today we're digging into the myth of instant chemistry as Kait and JJ unpack why moderate attraction matters, challenge Disney-style romance expectations, and share stories (including their own) about...
15 Jul 31min

Heal the Part of You That Keeps Choosing the Wrong People
Explore emotional healing, forgiveness, and understanding attachment styles that influence your dating choices. It’s time to reset what you’re attracted to and open your heart to a new kind of relatio...
10 Jul 9min

S18 E298: Should Women Make the First Move?
Today we’re diving into the big question of whether women should initiate in Christian dating as JJ and Kait break down biblical perspectives, cultural shifts, and practical advice for making the firs...
8 Jul 35min

S18 E297: Why Do Good Christian Men Feel So Rare?
Today’s episode dives deep into the realities of the Christian dating scene, unpacking why quality men may feel scarce, exploring shifts in church attendance, and offering hope, challenge, and compass...
1 Jul 28min



















