
S17 Ep290: Overcoming People Pleasing and Codependency in Dating and Relationships with Debra Fileta
Today we’re breaking cycles with Deb Fileta as she dives deep into people pleasing, unpacking its roots, how it affects dating and relationships, and sharing practical steps to walk in healthy, God-ce...
25 Feb 51min

Christian Bachelor and Q&A
Join us today to listen in to a bonus episode in Patreon. A couple weeks ago we had a Christian bachelor event with two different bachelors. We finish up with a Q&A! Need 1:1 support for your spec...
20 Feb 9min

S17 Ep289: Limerence vs Infatuation: How to Recognize and Heal Unhealthy Romantic Fixation
Today, Kait and JJ dive deep into the world of limerence, breaking down what it really is, how it differs from infatuation and a crush, and offering practical wisdom for anyone struggling to break fre...
18 Feb 48min

S17 Ep288: Breaking Cycles of Weak Discernment and Blind Trust with Lysa TerKeurst
Today we’re joined by the incredible Lysa TerKeurst as she gets real about healing from betrayal, rebuilding trust, and finding hope in dating again after an unwanted divorce! Need 1:1 support for yo...
11 Feb 48min

S17 Ep287: Healing the Mother and Father Wound with Justin and Abi Stumvoll
Today we’re diving deep with Justin and Abi Stumvoll as they unpack the realities of mother and father wounds, discuss how our childhood impacts our dating lives, and share practical steps for healing...
4 Feb 1h 5min

The Situationship Cycle: Why You’re Stuck—and How to Get Out
Today we’re talking all about breaking free from ambiguous “situationships” as Kait and JJ unpack how to spot them, why we get stuck in them, and practical steps to find clarity and healthier friendsh...
30 Jan 9min

S17 Ep286: You Are NOT Your Attachment: How to Rewire Unhealthy Dating Patterns | Dr. Caroline Leaf
Today we have Dr. Caroline Leaf, who unpacks the difference between mind and brain, how attachment patterns are learned, not labels, and gives us practical tools to transform how we show up in dating!...
28 Jan 55min

S17 Ep285: Breaking Sexual Shame & Reclaiming Wholeness with Dr. Juli Slattery
Today we’re diving into breaking free from sexual shame as Dr. Juli Slattery joins JJ and Kait Tomlin to unpack the roots of shame, identity traps, and how to pursue true sexual wholeness and surrende...
21 Jan 46min



















