Lowkey Chaotic

I thought I could love him into being better. I thought the good moments meant more than the bad ones. I thought if I just gave a little more, he’d finally love me the way I needed. I was wrong. In th...

5 Sep 202539min

Everyone loves to say “sex work is work” or “sex work is empowering.” And while I’ll always support sex workers, I don’t support the industry. In this episode I break down why - from the history of se...

24 Aug 202539min

Last week we unpacked the male gaze - this week, we’re discussing what happens when you like it. Is using your desirability as a power tool empowering… or just patriarchal? We’re talking capitalism, b...

11 Aug 202516min

A deep dive into the way the male gaze controls us - not just how we dress, but how we act, post, and even exist around other women. If you think you’ve escaped it, think again.

4 Aug 202523min

We’re told to be pretty, chill, cool, desirable but never too available. Say yes, but not too fast. Want love, but never admit it. This week, we’re talking about how women are raised to perform for me...

28 Jul 202515min

In this episode, I break down Kurt Caz’s Rome video and explain why his cruelty and victim-blaming are not just wrong, but dangerous. From debunking myths about immigrants to exposing the real reasons...

21 Jul 202521min

If you’re waiting to feel ready, you’ll be waiting forever. You don’t need to feel like it - you just need to start.

14 Jul 202523min

I so badly want to be cool. You know - hot, unbothered, effortlessly detached. I want to have casual sex and not spiral. I want to leave someone’s house and not immediately romanticize the way they sa...

23 Jun 202527min