
3312: Activity Is Not Accomplishment by Carl Pullein on Productivity & Habit Creation
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3312: Carl Pullein highlights the difference between simply being busy and truly accomplishing meaningful goals. He emphasizes the importance of transforming your daily to-do list by incorporating tasks that align with your long-term aspirations, ensuring that each day contributes to your personal and professional growth. By identifying what truly matters and focusing on small, impactful actions, you can move closer to achieving your life goals. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.carlpullein.com/blog/activity-is-not-accomplishment/7/2/2017 Quotes to ponder: "Great todo lists help you to move your life forward in achieving your life goals, help you feel in complete control of what is important in your life, and give you an overall sense of real accomplishment." "Not knowing what you want out of life is like embarking on a journey not knowing where you want to go." "Too often we confuse ticking off a lot of tasks on a to-do list with accomplishment." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
7 Sep 202410min

3311: Get Stupid Quick: Advice On Overthinking From A Zen Master by Richard Paterson with Becoming Minimalist
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3311: Richard Paterson shares insightful advice on overcoming overthinking by embracing simplicity and mental clarity. Drawing on wisdom from a Zen meditation teacher, he highlights the importance of freeing our minds from clutter to achieve inner peace, offering practical tips for calming the overactive mind and focusing on the present moment. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.becomingminimalist.com/stop-overthinking/ Quotes to ponder: "A crowded mind leaves no space for a peaceful heart." "Thinking is entirely overrated." "The mind can be a beautiful servant or a dangerous master, depending on how you use it." Episode references: Think Less And Grow Rich: https://www.thinklessandgrowrich.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
6 Sep 202410min

3310: 10 Feel Good Thoughts for a Bad Day by Marc Chernoff of Marc and Angel on Finding Happiness
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3310: Reflect on the shared experiences that unite us, even in challenging times. Marc Chernoff offers ten uplifting reminders to help us navigate bad days with grace, emphasizing the importance of self-compassion, resilience, and recognizing the beauty in everyday moments. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.marcandangel.com/2012/06/15/10-feel-good-thoughts-for-a-bad-day/ Quotes to ponder: "You may lose the people you love. You may lose the things you have. But no matter what happens, never lose yourself." "Sometimes you have to deal with issues and show others your uncomfortable side. It’s perfectly okay, it’s a natural part of being human." "Repetition is sometimes required to evolve and grow." Episode references: A New Earth: https://www.amazon.com/New-Earth-Awakening-Purpose-Selection/dp/0452289963 The Power of Now: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808 The Road Less Traveled: https://www.amazon.com/Road-Less-Traveled-Timeless-Edition/dp/0743243153 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
5 Sep 20249min

3309: How to Give Advice to Others by Mark Manson on Personal Growth & Self Help
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3309: Mark Manson outlines six essential principles for giving advice effectively, emphasizing the importance of ensuring the advice is wanted, relevant, and delivered without condescension. He encourages meeting people where they are and offering help without expecting anything in return. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://markmanson.net/how-to-give-advice Quotes to ponder: "Make sure the person you’re trying to help is actually looking for help, lest you come across as a condescending asshole." "If you don’t have experience but you do feel like you have an important or useful observation to make, then you should always qualify it by saying: 'I’ve never had this problem before, but it seems to me.'" "Advice is a gift. And as a gift, it is given unconditionally, with nothing expected in return." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
4 Sep 202410min

3308: Dangerous Ideas: What If Everything We Thought Was True About Productivity Was Wrong By Cal Newport on New Habits
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3308: Cal Newport explores the surprising difficulty of simple tasks and challenges our assumptions about productivity. He questions the reliability of traditional productivity methods, highlighting the unpredictable nature of motivation. Newport suggests a shift from rigid control to a more adaptive approach, focusing on awareness and energy management. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.calnewport.com/blog/2007/09/26/dangerous-ideas-what-if-everything-we-thought-was-true-about-productivity-was-wrong/ Quotes to ponder: "It seems that the general paradigm shift at play here is one away from rigid control over your entire work day and toward one where you acknowledge a big part of your motivation is out of your control." "Many times, however, I can’t stand the thought of it." "The slump is the evil twin to the groove." Episode references: The Power of Full Engagement by Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Full-Engagement-Managing-Performance/dp/0743226755 Csikszentmihalyi's Flow: https://www.amazon.com/Flow-Psychology-Experience-Perennial-Classics/dp/0061339202 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
3 Sep 20249min

3307: 6 Practical Steps to Start Living More Simply by Julianna Poplin of The Simplicity Habit on Minimalism
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3307: Julianna Poplin encourages readers to embrace simplicity in their lives by focusing on what truly matters, relationships, values, and well-being. Her six practical steps offer guidance on decluttering the home, simplifying meals, setting boundaries with technology, and more, making it easier to lead a life of intention and ease. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.thesimplicityhabit.com/steps-to-start-living-more-simply/ Quotes to ponder: "Simplifying your home can reflect the simple lifestyle you hope to achieve." "Living a simple life means focusing on the things that really matter - your values, your relationships, your dreams." "As difficult as it can be at first to say 'no,' it’s like a muscle - the more often you exercise it, the stronger it becomes." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
2 Sep 202412min

3306: Action Versus Intention: When Context Is Everything by Helene Massicotte of Free to Pursue on Personal Development
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3306: Helene Massicotte explores the concept of "action versus intention," highlighting how we often judge others based on their actions while excusing ourselves based on our intentions. By understanding that context is essential, she encourages us to give others the benefit of the doubt, fostering greater empathy and patience in our daily lives. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.freetopursue.com/blog/action-versus-intention Quotes to ponder: "That means, in effect, that we judge ourselves based on our intentions but that we judge others based on their actions." "It’s easy to judge harshly and swiftly. One simple question flipped our attitude from intolerance to acceptance and our emotion from contempt to sympathy." "To be sure of that, I would have to know the whole story. And often, that is nearly impossible." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
1 Sep 20248min

3305: How to Deal With Lies in a Relationship by Melissa Josue of Melissa the Love Coach on Authentic Intimacy
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3305: Melissa Josue challenges the common belief that being lied to undermines personal worth, arguing instead that lies reflect the liar's own fears and insecurities. She emphasizes that lies poison relationships by eroding trust and creating barriers to authentic intimacy, and offers guidance on fostering a space where truth and integrity can flourish. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://melissathelovecoach.com/dealing-with-lies/ Quotes to ponder: "The worst part about being lied to is that the liar didn’t think highly of himself enough to show up authentically." "Lies are based in fear. Fear that their truth won’t be accepted." "Meeting lies with truth opens the door for having more authentic relationships." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
1 Sep 20249min