
30. How Working Together Supports Our Relationship
Working with a partner has its ups and downs. Needs for privacy, autonomy, and time alone combined with financial stresses mix with career success and exhilaration. But what if both of you are excelle...
24 Jan 202436min

29. Cycles of Turn Ons and How to Sync Up With Your Partner's Sex Drive
Sex is a big part of most relationships. It can bring or express closeness and love and be steamy and fun. What about when someone isn't in the mood? That can be difficult for a relationship, especial...
17 Jan 20241h 29min

28 What Are BDE and BHE and is it Ruining Sex...For Everyone
You may have heard of BDE, but have you heard of BHE? Toxic masculinity affects everyone, and when that bleeds into queer relationships, the downsides can be just as problematic. In this episode, E a...
10 Jan 20241h 5min

27. Reflecting On This Last Year
This is the time of year for reflections! Going forward into the next chapter means honoring this one that is just finishing. In this episode, E and Li demonstrate a relationship check in that encom...
3 Jan 20241h 7min

Q&P Lessons About Polyamorous Breakups
Breakups suck. What about polyamorous breakups? Can you go to your other partners for support? What if a partner of yours breaks up with someone you disapproved of? In this episode, E and Li talk abo...
28 Des 202324min

25. New Relationship Energy, Let's Talk About It
We all know that feeling when we first start seeing someone new. Butterflies and flutters, tingles, burning, the warm glow when we get a text from them. This New Relationship Energy, or NRE, is fun an...
20 Des 202349min

24. Breakups Take Skill
Breakups suck. Whether it's amicable, mutual, or messy, the grief of losing something you love can really take it out of you. Being in a polyamorous relationship adds new complications. In this episo...
13 Des 20231h 6min

23. What is it Like Growing Up Queer? (Part 2)
Some people know from an early age that they're different; that they don't fit into the "norms" surrounding them. Li is one of those people. In this episode, Li shares their experiences growing up qu...
6 Des 202344min




















