If You Don't Feel Desired, You're in the Wrong Room
The only way you're ever going to get the love you want is if you're able to receive it.If you're busy giving, wanting, and chasing — there's no room for you to receive. You're not as big as you want ...
24 Apr 9min
Why Men Come to You… or Don’t (And It Has Nothing to Do With Looks)
Here's the Question: I want to be friends with a recent ex, and I know that we want different things romantically, but how can I build back the trust and support as friends when he refuses to talk to ...
17 Apr 11min
Everything’s Better… So Why Isn’t Dating Working?
Everything’s getting better, but it’s still not working. What’s going on? Here’s what I really want you to hear what you’re saying to yourself, okay?You’re saying:X, Y, Z has happened, therefore it wi...
3 Apr 9min
Why You Shut Down Just When He Gets Close
The process of dating, online dating, going on dates, talking to men—that is like exposure, the psychological technique for healing anxiety.If you’re terrified of elevators, you get into the elevator ...
27 Mar 10min
Why It’s Okay to Go All-In on Your Relationship Goals
Decentering men is about this:Right now, you see out there a political movement to basically demolish the patriarchy in all of its ramifications—everything that it does to women who want to succeed in...
20 Mar 11min
Do You Have to Be as Successful as the Man You're Dating?
Look at all the women you admire out there. Beyoncé. Come on. No matter who Taylor Swift is with, she's going to make more money than that person. She's going to be more successful. She's a legend. So...
7 Mar 24min
Calling Your Energy Back From a Man Who Isn’t Choosing You
I want you to take your power back.Everybody sees that differently.So stick out your arms.There was a guy who broke up with you once. You invested in him, and you left pieces of yourself still in him....
2 Mar 11min
Staying In Your Turn-On When You Feel Rejected
If a guy says, “What do you do?” or “How’s your work?” or “What are you doing at this party?” the first thing that happens is a thought like, What’s the best answer? What will he like the most? What w...
21 Feb 10min
