
How To Overcome Productivity Addiction
Dear Selfless Esteem, I'm curious about your thoughts on those of us who are addicted to being productive and always trying to tackle too much at once (including self-improvement initiatives)? How do ...
27 Okt 20256min

4 Ways to Stop People Pleasing
Dear Selfless Esteem, I'm tired of doing and saying whatever pleases people when sometimes I don't want to, or I don't really mean it. I've been this way all my life. How can I stop people pleasing? S...
20 Okt 20255min

Grieving Pet Owner Questions Rainbow Bridge and Seeks Comfort
Dear Selfless Esteem, My dog died and I miss him so much. He was my fur baby and I can't believe he's gone. Do you think the Rainbow Bridge is true? I can't bear the thought that I'll never see him ag...
13 Okt 20254min

How To Handle an Ungrateful Friend
Dear Selfless Esteem, I have a lifelong friend who seems more & more ungrateful & cold hearted. For years I've been there for her by encouraging & listening & helping her out financially when I didn't...
6 Okt 20254min

Religious Trauma: The Devastating Effects and How to Heal
Dear Selfless Esteem, I think I'm a victim of religious trauma because I'm such a perfectionist. I've been this way since I was a child, and although there's some things I'm grateful for in my upbring...
29 Sep 20255min

The Ultimate Cheat Sheet to Aging Gracefully
Dear Selfless Esteem, I'm interested in aging gracefully but I'm also dreading sagging skin, wrinkles, and everything else that goes along with aging. I see some crow's feet forming by my eyes, which ...
22 Sep 20254min

How to Deal with Lazy Coworkers
Dear Selfless Esteem,Why do I get so mad when I see my co-workers slacking off? I feel like I work twice as hard as they do, yet I don't make as much as they do. They never get in trouble for not doin...
15 Sep 20256min

The Let Them Theory: Biblical or Heartless?
Dear Selfless Esteem, Does the "Let Them" theory contradict the Bible? Doesn't the Bible say that we should motivate each other to do good works? It also says to make disciples all over the world. In ...
8 Sep 20255min




















