Episode 8 – Green Flags: The Overlooked Signs of Someone Worth Loving
We’ve all become professionals at spotting red flags in dating. The late-night texts, the “I’m bad at commitment but let’s see where this goes,” the mysteriously empty apartment with three snakes but ...
22 Aug 202512min
Episode 7 – Chemistry vs. Capacity: Fireworks, Campfires, and Real Connection
Think of the last time you felt that head-spinning rush of attraction, the kind that makes you lose your appetite, lose your mind, maybe even lose yourself. Movies call it true love. Songs call it sou...
20 Aug 202514min
Episode 6 – Ghosting & Breadcrumbing: Why Your Nervous System Chases Vanishing Acts
You know what’s worse than being ghosted? Realizing your nervous system has been trained to expect it and still feeling the pull toward the people who disappear. In Chapter 6 of my book, The Attachmen...
20 Aug 202514min
Episode 5 – Chemistry vs. Chaos: The Truth About Drama-Filled Relationships
Welcome to The Attachment Trap Podcast, hosted by therapist, coach, and author Tim Ervin.If you’ve ever wondered why your love life feels like a rollercoaster—steady one moment and chaotic the next—th...
17 Aug 202512min
Episode 4 – Why Familiar Chaos Feels Safer Than Healthy Love (Neuroception & Dating)
Your nervous system might be confusing chaos for chemistry. Here’s how sitcom couples can teach you the difference between thrilling and truly safe. Ever wonder why you keep ending up with partners wh...
14 Aug 202514min
Episode 1 Why You Keep Dating Your Own Emotional Rollercoaster (Attachment Styles Explained)
Episode 1: Attachment Theory Ever feel like your dating life belongs in a sitcom? In this episode, therapist and author Tim Ervin breaks down why your love life might look more like Modern Family than...
4 Aug 202510min
The Attachment Trap Podcast: Sets the stage for modern dating confusion, with a wink at future episodes.
Welcome to The Attachment Trap Podcast“You’re not broken, you’re wired for survival.”In this very first episode, therapist, coach, and author Tim Ervin introduces the heart and soul of The Attachment ...
4 Aug 20253min
Episode 3 – Protective Patterns: Why You Attract the Same Love Loops (IFS + Attachment)
Episode 3: Meet the Inner Crew Running Your Love LifeBased on Chapter 3 of The Attachment Trap: Loving Without Losing YourselfHave you ever looked back at your dating history and thought, “Why do I ke...
3 Aug 20259min
