The Marriage Conversation Most Couples Never Have
Links from this episode:Join us for The At-Home Marriage Retreat, Sat Dec 5 (early-bird $19 per couple through Nov 30): https://stan.store/masteryourmarriage/p/the-athome-marriage-retreatHelp us out w...
4 Nov 27min
Stop Coaching Your Spouse When They're Upset
Has your spouse ever come to you hurt, and instead of hearing them out, you corrected how they said it?We're Robert and Sharla, married for over three decades and coaching couples through the same str...
28 Okt 29min
How to Ask Your Spouse for What You Want (Without Starting a Fight)
Do you know exactly what bugs you about your spouse, but freeze up when it comes to saying what you actually want instead?We're Robert and Sharla, married for over three decades and coaching couples t...
21 Okt 30min
But He Should Already Know: Failing the Test You Didn't Know You Were Taking
Do you wait for your spouse to figure out what you need, and then feel hurt when they don't? Or do you tell yourself it's not worth asking anyway?We're Robert and Sharla, married for over three decade...
14 Okt 28min
Why You Get Defensive When Your Spouse Is Upset
Do you get defensive the second your spouse says they're upset with you? Most of us do. We start correcting the facts, or we go straight to "poor me," and five minutes later nobody's talking about the...
9 Okt 36min
How Lifelong Lovers Cherish Each Other Differently
How Lifelong Lovers Cherish Each Other Differently - It is easy to look at someone else’s business, family, house, or marriage and decide ours is not enough. The longer we stay in that comparison, the...
1 Okt 37min
Why the Spark Fades in Marriage, and How to Wake It Back Up
How Lifelong Lovers Keep Wanting Each OtherLast week we kept talking about the work of stopping damage. That work matters. If contempt, unbridled expression, or defensiveness are running the house, yo...
24 Sep 28min
Why Your Marriage Collapses Under Pressure
Get the workbook that accompanies this seriesLast week we talked about borrowing a self. How many of us build a pseudo-self out of attention and approval — reassurance from a partner, praise from a bo...
16 Sep 25min
