Why Effort, Patience, and People Pleasing Stops Working

Why Effort, Patience, and People Pleasing Stops Working

In this episode, we explore what it means to move from forced to self-sourced. When external crutches like validation, and good-girl syndrome aren't enough and you’re called to become your own anchor.

This conversation unpacks the emotional shifts, inner resilience, and self-trust that are built when you stop outsourcing safety, validation, and direction.

If you’ve found yourself gripping and forcing to hold yourself through uncertainty, this episode is an invitation to step into deep self-reliance, inner security, and embodied confidence.

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All Things Somatic Work for Anxious Attachment

All Things Somatic Work for Anxious Attachment

Why somatic work is key when it comes to making lasting change. Why body based and nervous system work is not just helpful, but a requirement to your healing journey Tracking your own subsconcious min...

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Are you holding anger in your body?

Are you holding anger in your body?

In this episode we explore the importance of your relationship to anger. When we don't have a healthy expression of anger it can stay suppressed in the body which usually manifests as having a short f...

22 Mars 202414min

Finding closure when they won't give it to you

Finding closure when they won't give it to you

When a relationship ends anxious attachment personalities often feel a strong need for closure, replaying conversations in our minds and yearning for explanations. The fixation on closure stems from a...

7 Mars 202413min

BONUS: 5 Things I Did to Become Secure

BONUS: 5 Things I Did to Become Secure

I've extracted the 5 things that made real shifts when it came to my healing. I was inspired to create this episode after watching a tiktok with a similar title but hearing THEIR list was quite differ...

18 Feb 202421min

Part 4: Anxious Attachment, Needs, and Manipulation...

Part 4: Anxious Attachment, Needs, and Manipulation...

The connection to our boundaries and needs is foundational to developing strong relationships that feel safe, nurturing, and supportive! But what if asking for your needs feel scary?What about the pa...

27 Okt 202318min

Part 3: The Core Strategy for Healing Anxious Attachment

Part 3: The Core Strategy for Healing Anxious Attachment

This episode is thorough breakdown of what we need to understand an master of the journey to overcoming insecure attachment tendencies. Don't worry it's not complicated and you'll be able to pick it u...

26 Okt 202317min

Part 2: Mapping Your Unique Anxious Adaption

Part 2: Mapping Your Unique Anxious Adaption

This episode has a somatic therapy based practice which is about to give you a new found awareness into your attachment tendencies. You should do this practice while sitting, eyes closed, undistracte...

26 Okt 202319min

Part 1: Anxious Attachment Style Myths and Facts

Part 1: Anxious Attachment Style Myths and Facts

Welcome to class!You probably already know about attachment style so I only spend a bit of time defining the different tendencies; avoidant, anxious, disorganized.I'll also break down myths around att...

26 Okt 202324min

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