Vikaash’s Journey from CEO to Hands-On Father | Fatherhood Reflections | Dad Sense Podcast| Subhasis

In this heartfelt episode of 'Dadsense; Vikaash Khdloya, a Chartered Accountant and erstwhile CEO of a large company with a deep connection to his middle-class roots, opens up about the journey that shaped his approach to fatherhood. Reflecting on a childhood filled with cherished memories, thanks to the quality time with his father, a busy businessman, made sure to spend with him, Vikash explores how these experiences influenced his own parenting style.

He shares candidly about the mistakes he made, particularly in his early years as a father, where the pursuit of conventional success of a father in India overshadowed the importance of being present with his kids. However, a turning point came when he realized that true happiness and success stem from within, not from external achievements. Inspired by the book Top 5 Regrets of the Dying, Vikash began to re-prioritize his life, focusing on the joys of parenting and the invaluable moments with his children.

Throughout the podcast, Vikash offers valuable insights into setting boundaries between work and family, the importance of being vulnerable with your kids, and breaking down gender biases. He emphasizes the significance of allowing children to experience joy and the importance of encouraging them without pressure. Vikash also shares his two essential mantras for a balanced life: managing time effectively and delivering on expectations with flexibility.

This episode is a must-listen for any parent striving to navigate the complexities of modern fatherhood while maintaining a meaningful connection with their children.

Chapters:

2:39 Introduction to the conversation

4:54 Cherished childhood memories

10:09 Advice from Subhasis's father

12:24 Navigating teenage years

14:49 Parenting goals

18:14 Life-changing book "Top 5 Regrets of the Dying"

20:59 Early days of parenthood

25:19 How parenting changes you

27:49 Kids mirror our behavior and balance work-life

32:09 How kids notice everything

35:54 The importance of fatherly love

39:29 Teaching vulnerability and starting a new chapter

43:04 Reliving kids' milestones

46:29 Unconditional love and support from kids

49:54 Shaping unique personalities

54:19 Raising open-minded kids

58:29 Enjoying activities with kids and managing expectations

1:02:29 Embracing imperfection and prioritizing time

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