274. Three Reasons Finding Love Is More Possible Than You Think

274. Three Reasons Finding Love Is More Possible Than You Think

Your brain is convinced it knows how your love story ends. It's gathered all the evidence from your past and decided: this is just how it is. But your brain is not a fortune teller. It's a safety mechanism. And it is working with about 1% of the data.

In this episode of The Feminist Dating Show, Lily breaks down three reasons you might just be wrong that finding love is impossible — and why more is possible in your love life than you currently believe.

Inside episode 274:

  • Why your brain's "it's never going to happen" narrative is a biological feature, not a fact about your future
  • The math on how many people you haven't met yet — and what that means for your love life
  • How to use the relationships you already have as evidence that more is coming
  • The two things that actually change your timeline: proximity to opportunity and courageous behavior in the face of it
  • Lily's ACK process for rewiring your brain toward possibility when scarcity takes over

Work with Lily:

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278. Stop Demoting Yourself to the "Best Friend" Role

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277. The Flirting Ladder (from frozen with fear, to flirting irl)

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276. The Impossible List: The Exercise That Proves Your Love Story Is Possible

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Today we're talking about making the impossible happen. So if you think finding love is impossible for you, this is the episode for you. You've done it before. The friendship you didn't know you nee...

21 Juli 10min

Episode Spotlight:  Get over the fear of rejection (rejection resilience side quest!)

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If rejection makes you want to hide under the covers and never date again—this episode is your roadmap back to brave action.   In this Episode Spotlight, Lily shares one of her most painful rejections...

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Episode Spotlight: "How to move through hopelessness in my dating life?"

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Episode Spotlight: "I'm a late bloomer, will men think that's a red flag?" - Live Coaching Session

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