The Question Beneath Everything: Am I Only Valuable When…?

The Question Beneath Everything: Am I Only Valuable When…?

What if the beliefs driving your relationships, work, and self-esteem can be traced back to one question? In this solo episode, Malisa Hepner explores the moments that taught her to equate worth with competence, achievement, and taking care of others. She shares stories from her childhood, reflects on the unexpected evolution of Emotionally Unavailable, and examines how inherited narratives shape the way we move through the world. A thoughtful conversation about identity, belonging, and what happens when we stop trying to earn our value.

The stories that once helped us survive can quietly become the rules we live by. Recognizing those stories is often the first step toward freedom.

* Emotionally Unavailable is produced 100% in-house. No team, just me and my love for yapping and helping others. If this show has ever helped you in any way and you want to give back, here is your chance to help it keep going strong. Subscribe to the patreon, grab some merch or get a workbook! I appreciate you all.


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  • $5 - Early Ad free episodes + Occasional other goodies!

  • $10 - Benefits listed above and access to growing voice library support for spiraling/overthinking (along with workbooks and practices)

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Out-of-Body Experiences, Consciousness & Healing: Where Spirituality Meets Psychology

Out-of-Body Experiences, Consciousness & Healing: Where Spirituality Meets Psychology

In this episode, host Malisa Hepner sits down with Leslie Newan to explore her experiences with out-of-body travel and how they transformed her understanding of consciousness, embodiment, and spiritua...

19 Aug 46min

Addiction Recovery: Rebuilding Your Life Through Sobriety, Self-Love & Routine

Addiction Recovery: Rebuilding Your Life Through Sobriety, Self-Love & Routine

In this episode, host, Malisa Hepner, sits with Bryan Blackmon as he shares his journey from addiction to sobriety and how he rebuilt his life through resilience, self-love, and consistent daily routi...

17 Aug 54min

It's Never Too Late to Heal: Childhood Trauma, Shame & Becoming Your Authentic Self

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14 Aug 47min

How to Stop Overthinking: Break the Rumination Cycle & Take Back Control of Your Thoughts

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In this episode, clinical psychologist Shang Olsen explores the psychology behind rumination, overthinking, and repetitive negative thoughts—and why trying to control or eliminate your thoughts can so...

12 Aug 41min

Identity Shifts: You Don't Have to Do More to Become Who You're Meant to Be

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In this solo episode, Malisa Hepner reflects on identity, authenticity, astrology, and the strange in-between spaces that come with personal growth. From the intensity of eclipse energy to recognizing...

10 Aug 18min

How to Make Someone Feel Seen Instead of Solved

How to Make Someone Feel Seen Instead of Solved

What does someone really need when they're hurting? In this episode, therapist Malisa Hepner welcomes back friend of the show, Elaynie Painter, to explore why our instinct to fix, solve, or offer advi...

7 Aug 57min

Who Are You Becoming? The Psychology & Spirituality of Identity, Manifestation, and Growth

Who Are You Becoming? The Psychology & Spirituality of Identity, Manifestation, and Growth

What if the biggest thing standing between you and the life you want is the identity you're unconsciously holding onto? In this solo episode, Malisa Hepner explores the powerful intersection of psycho...

5 Aug 21min

Why I Welcome Grief: Learning to Live After Profound Loss

Why I Welcome Grief: Learning to Live After Profound Loss

In this deeply personal solo episode, Malisa Hepner shares what it's been like navigating life after profound loss while continuing to choose joy, presence, and healing. Reflecting on how PTSD, grief,...

3 Aug 25min

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