128: The Friction is the Point: Stop Trying to Optimize Yourself Out of Life

128: The Friction is the Point: Stop Trying to Optimize Yourself Out of Life

What if the thing making your life harder isn’t a sign that something is wrong — but proof that you’re actually doing something that matters? We’re talking about our obsession with eliminating friction, why “life hacks” can leave us less capable of handling life, and why the hard part might be the whole point.

In conversation, we tackle:

  • Why “friction maxxing” is an oxymoron (and why adding “maxxing” to everything turns even anti-optimization ideas into optimization)
  • The self-help pendulum from hustle culture to “rest more” — and what happens when you’re an ambitious person who actually wants to do more
  • Sam’s realization that the friction was the point while launching her group program
  • Why trying to fast-forward through the hard parts of life means you also fast-forward through the parts that make life meaningful
  • The uncomfortable question behind every goal: What are you willing to sacrifice for this?
  • Why getting stuck often has less to do with having no options and more to do with not taking the first step

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136: Why Stress is The #1 Issue In Relationships & What To do About It with Liz Earnshaw

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135: Our Hot Takes

135: Our Hot Takes

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134: Sam's Brother Died: Reckoning with Grief

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131: When Birth Trauma Changes Your Family Plan with Kayleigh Summers

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133: The “Traditional” Family Never Actually Existed

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132: Cornell 7 & R*pe Culture

132: Cornell 7 & R*pe Culture

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131: What If Your Friends Actually Like You? with Blake Blankenbecler

131: What If Your Friends Actually Like You? with Blake Blankenbecler

When did friendship become something we have to optimize? In this episode, Amanda sits down with friendship specialist Blake Blankenbecler to talk about why we’re overthinking our friendships—and how ...

29 Sep 50min

130: What Nobody Says About Adult Sibling Relationships & Birth Order

130: What Nobody Says About Adult Sibling Relationships & Birth Order

In this episode we're getting into the pressure to be best friends with your sibling, why forcing it backfires, and why it's okay if you just don't like yours.In conversation, we tackle: Why Sam spent...

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