S6 Episode 44: The Yes-And Mindset That Changes Coaching Conversations with Chris Grimes

If your coaching, conversations, or presentations feel a little too busy, this episode is a masterclass in what happens when you slow down, listen deeply, and know exactly when to stop. Chris Grimes - motivational comedian, coach, broadcaster, and improviser - shows why the simplest shifts in timing, silence, and presence can transform the way people think, speak, and connect.

Today Claire Pedrick and Chris Grimes unpack the improv principle of yes, and as a powerful coaching mindset, exploring why collaboration beats interrogation, why people often listen to reply instead of understand, and how the right question is sometimes no question at all. Chris introduces his idea of The Clearing - the uncluttered space where insight, story, and creativity emerge - and explains how coaching, comedy, and deep listening all come alive there.

You’ll discover:

• why “if you can’t top it, stop it” is a brilliant rule for coaching and communication
• how timing shapes everything from a joke to a breakthrough conversation
• why silence can carry more authority than talking
• what improv teaches us about ensemble, vulnerability, and making other people look good
• how Chris uses storytelling frameworks like 54321, Pass the Golden Baton, and Legacy Life Reflections to surface meaningful insight

Claire and Chris also explore the danger of becoming too mechanical in a world where AI can already imitate process, and the human qualities that still make coaching irreplaceable - warmth, kindness, presence, and the courage to be imperfect.

Chris Grimes is a coach, facilitator, and motivational comedian, and the founder of Second Curve, The Good Listening To Show, and Instant Wit, his Bristol-based comedy improvisation company. His work blends performance, listening, and leadership into a style that is as practical as it is unforgettable. Essential listening if you coach, lead, speak, facilitate, or simply want to have better conversations. This one is funny, thoughtful, and packed with ideas you’ll want to use immediately.

Contact:

• Contact Chris through Linked In http://linkedin.com/in/chris-grimes-actor-broadcaster-facilitator-coach
• www.thegoodlisteningtoshow.com
• legacylifereflections.com
• secondcurve.uk
• instantwit.co.uk
• Contact Claire by emailing info@3dcoaching.com or join our coaching community where you can talk with other listeners.

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Keywords:

podcast coaching, active listening, coaching questions, leadership development, communication skills, personal growth, reflective listening, coaching mindset, effective conversation, self-awareness, team leadership, mindset shift, facilitation skills, deep listening, coaching techniques, emotional intelligence, professional development, coaching tips, conversation skills, leadership coaching

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