84 - How to Bring Up a Problem Without Starting a Fight

84 - How to Bring Up a Problem Without Starting a Fight

For more relationship tips and advice, visit https://dailyrelationshiptips.com/.

Most couples think arguments blow up because of what gets said. Usually, it's how the conversation starts. Those first few words set a tone that's hard to turn around.

Mark and Dana, a couple Alastair worked with, kept having the same argument for months. Dana's opening words carried days of frustration, so Mark got defensive straight away. When she changed how she started, the argument stopped.

You'll learn how to raise issues gently with what the Gottmans call a soft start-up. A soft start-up still tells the truth. It just opens with care, so your partner can actually hear you.

Before your next hard conversation, ask yourself: am I coming from love and a wish to resolve this, or from frustration and a need to be right? Then open with what you want, not what's built up.

Daily Relationship Tips helps couples strengthen relationship communication, rebuild emotional intimacy, restore relationship trust, develop healthy relationship habits, and reconnect before emotional distance becomes permanent.

Hosted by Alastair Duhs, relationship coach and creator of Reconnected.

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99 - The Real Reason You Can't Stop Feeling Jealous

99 - The Real Reason You Can't Stop Feeling Jealous

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98 - Why Small Arguments Turn Into Fights About the Past

98 - Why Small Arguments Turn Into Fights About the Past

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97 - Are You Listening to Your Partner, or Just Waiting to Talk?

97 - Are You Listening to Your Partner, or Just Waiting to Talk?

For more relationship tips and advice, visit https://dailyrelationshiptips.com/.When did your partner last finish talking to you and feel truly heard? Not just listened to, but actually heard. Many of...

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96 - The Simple Daily Habit Most Couples Stop Doing

96 - The Simple Daily Habit Most Couples Stop Doing

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95 - Why You Feel Alone in Your Marriage (And How to Fix It)

95 - Why You Feel Alone in Your Marriage (And How to Fix It)

For more relationship tips and advice, visit https://dailyrelationshiptips.com/.Do you ever feel alone, even when you and your partner are in the same room? You're not the only one, and your relations...

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94 - The Real Reason Couples Fight Over Small Things

94 - The Real Reason Couples Fight Over Small Things

For more relationship tips and advice, visit https://dailyrelationshiptips.com/.Have you ever argued about the dishes, only for it to turn into something much bigger? What couples fight about is almos...

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93 - Are You Drifting Apart Without Realising It?

93 - Are You Drifting Apart Without Realising It?

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