
Everything you say and do can and will get used against you
I mean everything!! You never feel safe interacting with this person. This is why this particular type of abuse is so exhausting. While the abuse may not be constant, the risk of it is. The potential ...
13 Mars 202221min

Compare the life of a covert narcissist with the life of their victim
Are you trying to decide if all you are going through is "normal," or if it is fair and reasonable? In the last two episodes, I have talked about the codependency traits that so many victims have in c...
6 Mars 202219min

The Eternal Victim Role of a Covert Narcissist
I hear so many people who have lived with a covert narcissist describe this person as a victim of everything. They can make everything be an attack on them or another way they got slighted. Covert nar...
27 Feb 202223min

How My Codependent Tendencies Led Me Straight to a Covert Narcissist
I now know the role that my own codependent tendencies played in creating this match. This match that I was convinced was made in heaven. This match that I truly believed was perfect. This match that ...
20 Feb 202220min

Midweek Check In #2
Grasping covert narcissism is like grasping the wind. It is here one minute and gone the next. We think we have a solid grasp on it only to watch that slip away. This only adds to the confusion we hav...
16 Feb 202222min

Entitlement - Feeding that False Self of Covert Narcissism
The entitlement of a narcissistic person screams, "I am special simply because! I am better than everyone. I am more important than everyone. Everyone knows I am special and should treat me as such." ...
13 Feb 202222min

Covert Narcissism Podcast Trailer
Hi, I’m Renee Swanson. Host of the covert narcissism podcast! Narcissism is a very common word in today’s world. Narcissists are the arrogant, self-centered, loud life of the party, who only talk abou...
6 Feb 20221min

A Deeper Look at Passive Aggressive Behavior
Covert narcissists are experts at passive aggressiveness. They have this down so well. As a victim of the abuse, we are so conditioned that we don’t see it! Cognitive dissonance keeps us blind to so m...
6 Feb 202228min






















