What Your Attachment Style Says About You w/ Sarah Baldwin

What Your Attachment Style Says About You w/ Sarah Baldwin

Hey Besties! Today, we get to listen to the second half of Violetta’s conversation with Sarah Baldwin. Sarah is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma-informed Life Coach dedicated to supporting individuals in understanding their reactions, feelings, and patterns, emphasizing that these are not indicative of anything wrong, but rather everything being right with the person.

Violetta and Sarah will dig deep into what it means to have an anxious or avoidant attachment style, how to overcome it, and how it can potentially affect your current and future relationships. Discover how your nervous system is the puppeteer of your relationships, unravel the mysteries of anxious and avoidant attachments, and get the lowdown on why opposites attract but might not always stick. Learn the golden rules of relationship arguments, decode the dynamic dance between different attachment styles, and embrace the bravest steps towards love. Whether you're anxiously engaged or coolly detached, it's time to understand, set boundaries, and find out why, in the game of love, we're all wonderfully complex.


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Episode Highlights:

00:00 Intro

00:24 How does your nervous system affect your relationships?

02:04 How does Anxious Attachment style develop?

03:47 How does Avoidant Attachment style develop?

05:18 What should you do if you have avoidant attachment?

10:39 What should you do if you have anxious attachment?

12:39 Anxious and avoidant attachment attract each other

17:22 The golden rule: Two dysregulated people can’t solve an argument

20:41 Most common dynamic between anxious and avoidant people

21:37 We can be both avoidant and anxious

24:03 Why both avoidantly and anxiously attached people are often misunderstood

28:14 We need to learn to understand each other

30:04 A lot of us feel we’re so f*cked up

35:46 What is the bravest thing an avoidant person can do in a relationship?

37:26 Can an avoidant and anxiously attached person have a relationship?

40:56 Fear and excitement have the same somatic sensory response

44:32 The people we need to set boundaries will resist those boundaries the most

48:12 When to know that the other person is not yet safe for you to be in a relationship with

55:16 We all make sense and there’s nothing wrong with us


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DON’T Send That Text w/ Robert Greene

DON’T Send That Text w/ Robert Greene

Hey Besties! To conclude Mentor month, we have a continuation of last week's interview with the illustrious Robert Greene! Again, Robert is the author of 6 New York Times bestsellers including the infamous The 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction. So get your pen and paper out, we’re taking notesThis week on Almost Adulting Robert takes a deep dive explaining the difference between deception and lying by telling us stories from his past and how through trial and error he learned some of his greatest powers. Violet and Robert also teach tactics to help us not overreact, and some extremely valid reasons as to why you should NOT send that text…at least in the moment. Finally, Robert tells us the honest truth about why when people show us their true colors the first time, we need to believe them. This applies to that guy you don’t wanna get rid of too! These lessons are the perfect way to end the year and get us ready to take on the next - and this is gonna be the best year yet. Happy Holidays Besties and stay safe! See you in 2023!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction00:23 The power of deception05:27 Envy and people wanting someone from you07:46 Why is the book “48 Laws of Power” popular in prison?09:39 The worst advice became the best advice13:58 Deception vs. lying18:40 When someone’s mask falls off22:03 Advice for people in the workspace28:33 It’s difficult for women in the workplace30:39 Study of human behavior34:44 Be patient 36:45 Train yourself to not react right away39:51 For people in power and leadership43:16 Be okay to admit you’re wrong46:20 The one book Robert would want you to read48:32 Your real power & using your weakness as your strength50:49 Gaining power from respect vs. fearConnect with Robert on:https://powerseductionandwar.com/https://twitter.com/robertgreenehttps://www.instagram.com/robertgreeneofficial/Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

21 Dec 202258min

Manipulation vs. Mastery w/ Robert Greene

Manipulation vs. Mastery w/ Robert Greene

Hey Besties! To continue mentor month, this week on Almost Adulting we are joined by yet another legend, Robert Greene! Robert is the author of 6 New York Times bestsellers including the infamous The 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction. Together Violet and Robert go through some of the most important lessons in his iconic books and unpack the TRUE meanings behind them - regardless of any ‘bad press’ they may have received. Throughout the conversation Violet and Robert drop gems about how to further your trajectory in life: from learning how to see behind the ‘mask’ people put on for others, to finding your true purpose (even if that means failing). Finally, Robert speaks on what he feels is his most important lesson taught in the 48 Laws of Power, and how you can apply it to your life and reap the benefits. Get your notebooks out Besties, we’re taking over the world in 2023!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm EVERLYWELL: https://www.everlywell.com/ADULTING for 20% off your next at-home lab test!What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:13 How it all started04:19 Observing people closely08:40 Is The 48 Laws of Power evil?14:11 The Law of Five16:23 The Laws of Human Nature19:19 We aren’t born with boldness23:42 Russian heritage26:29 Do you need manipulation to succeed?28:52 Think of other people's interest31:55 Being shy/introspective is not a bad thing38:56 How to re-assess yourself this new year44:36 We suffer when we choose the wrong things48:06 Be less interested in yourself and more interested in other people51:41 You’re born uniqueCheck out Robert on:https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B001IGV3IShttps://powerseductionandwar.com/https://www.instagram.com/robertgreeneofficial/ Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

15 Dec 202257min

Get Him OBSESSED - Earth Signs

Get Him OBSESSED - Earth Signs

WELCOME TO TUESDAY'S VAULT ARCHIVES!!Want to get an Earth sign obsessed with you???? Look no further than today's brand new episode of how to attract a Taurus, Capricorn, and a Virgo.On today's episode, Violet is presenting a zodiac series for the rest of the month! Every Tuesday this month, she will be introducing 3 new zodiac signs and how to date them. How to attract them. How to play them. What they like and not like and their best matches.LISTEN AND DOWNLOAD THIS EPISODE RIGHT NOW SO YOU KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GETTING INTO!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

14 Dec 202241min

I Saw A UFO w/ Nick Pope

I Saw A UFO w/ Nick Pope

Hey Besties! We are officially kicking off mentor month! There’s no better way to end the year than with words of wisdom from icons to send us into the new year right, so let’s get into it!This week on Almost Adulting Violet is joined by Nick Pope. Nick Pope is a journalist, media commentator, and former lead of the British Government's Ministry of Defence, where he was responsible for investigating UFO phenomena. The two talk about EVERYTHING UFO’s! From places with the most sightings, why the government may or may not be hiding their findings from the public, and how soon we may find out the truth about extraterrestrial life and what that means for us. Although it may not be like the movie ET, there is definitely something out there. Besties, put your thinking caps on and tune in!Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction00:51 Is there life outside of Earth?04:02 The amount of information that can be disclosed05:15 What was the project trying to accomplish?06:26 The place with the most UFO sightings07:25 The silliest questions/concept about UFO10:32 Wildest conspiracy theories13:10 Is there a time difference between planets?14:24 Parallel universes20:07 Potential attacks from aliens23:18 What would they look like?28:10 Media’s perception of UFO’s31:11 Alien abductions?35:16 How does collaboration work between countries?38:02 There is life elsewhere41:35 Most famous UFO sighting44:43 Proudest life accomplishments48:32 What’s the smartest thing you can ask?51:00 Would you live on an alien planet?55:24 What are you currently passionate about?Check out Nick’s books:https://www.amazon.com/Nick-Pope/e/B001KISGAC https://www.ancientalienslivetour.com/ http://nickpope.net/wpte19/https://twitter.com/nickpopemodGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

8 Dec 20221h 3min

Get Him OBSESSED - Fire Signs

Get Him OBSESSED - Fire Signs

WELCOME TO TUESDAY'S VAULT ARCHIVES!!Want to get a fire sign obsessed with you???? Look no further than today's brand new episode of how to attract an Aries, Leo, and a Sagittarius.On today's episode, Violet is presenting a zodiac series for the rest of the month! Every Tuesday this month, she will be introducing 3 new zodiac signs and how to date them. How to attract them. How to play them. What they like and not like and their best matches.LISTEN AND DOWNLOAD THIS EPISODE RIGHT NOW SO YOU KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GETTING INTO!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

7 Dec 202237min

From Veganism to Vaginas w/ Sophia Miacova

From Veganism to Vaginas w/ Sophia Miacova

HEY BESTIES AND WELCOME TO TUESDAY'S VAULT ARCHIVES!!Did you know there are different types of vagina canals?? Listen to today's episode to learn which canal you have and which pecker is your perfect match.On this episode, Violet is joined by Sophia 'Miacova' Esperanza where they also discuss, being vegan & an environmentalist, vaginas, reasons why we stay in a controlling toxic relationships, and when it's time to let go.THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY: EVERLYWELL: http://www.everlywell.com/ADULTING for 20% off your next at-home lab testATHLETIC GREENS: http://www.athleticsgreens.com/VIOLETBENSON Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

29 Nov 202250min

Proof of Afterlife w/ Theresa Caputo

Proof of Afterlife w/ Theresa Caputo

Hey Besties! To conclude Scorpio month, we’re welcoming a very special guest. Today on Almost Adulting we are joined by Long Island Medium star, New York Times best-selling author, and the host of the Hey Spirit! podcast, Theresa Caputo. Theresa has been seeing, feeling, and sensing spirits since she was four years old. During today's episode Theresa explains that she is getting a certain feeling, which leads to Violet receiving a full reading where she gets to communicate with her grandmother on the other side. Lastly, the two talk about Theresa’s experience doing live shows, her most memorable readings, and dealing with non-believers. Besties, listen with an open heart and mind, there may even be someone trying to communicate with you from the other side.THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY: EVERLYWELL: http://www.everlywell.com/ADULTING for 20% off your next at-home lab testATHLETIC GREENS: http://www.athleticsgreens.com/VIOLETBENSON Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction01:04 Sensing / seeing spirits since four years old04:08 Debilitating anxiety05:39 What about non-believers?08:34 Did you not get to say goodbye?25:57 Why do you think you were chosen to have this capability?27:30 What happens when you’re channeling spirits? 28:52 Did you have a bad experience with spirits?31:09 Are people always accepting of your readings?34:40 What’s your most memorable reading?40:25 Come as you are with no expectations41:45 Do not use a ouija board43:04 Some people don’t want to communicate with spirits44:44 The murder-suicide reading46:15 Profiting off of the gift47:18 What can people expect in your live shows? Connect with Theresa on:https://www.theresacaputo.com/https://www.instagram.com/theresacaputo/https://twitter.com/Theresacaputohttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hey-spirit-with-theresa-caputo/id1534764208 Get more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

24 Nov 202252min

R U AN EMOTIONAL MASTURBATOR? ft. U Up? Jared & Jordana

R U AN EMOTIONAL MASTURBATOR? ft. U Up? Jared & Jordana

Are blowjobs really more intimate than sex?This week Violet is joined by Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham, the hosts of U-Up; a modern dating podcast presented by Betches. During this episode, they discuss all things relationships, sex, and how to get over an ex.This hilarious trio will dive into how the pandemic has changed the dating scene, dating 101 from a male's perspective like why do men text daily but don't try to see you??? the answer will surpise you!! and lastly, they even cover how Jordana conjured the man of her dreams. YOU DON'T WANT TO MISS IT!!!WANNA GET FEATURED ON THE PODCAST??? CALL THIS FREE NUMBER TO SHARE YOUR WILDEST CONFESSION: 1-424-278-4268THIS WEEK’S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY: EVERLYWELL: http://www.everlywell.com/ADULTING for 20% off your next at-home lab testATHLETIC GREENS: http://www.athleticsgreens.com/VIOLETBENSON Advertise with Almost Adulting at Gumball.fm See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

22 Nov 202253min

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