How can I get people out of their heads and into their hearts?
How can I get people out of their head and into their heart? Many are still confused at why a child wouldn’t say something at the time. Or why they never showed us any signs. I think people are forgetting what it used to be like, to be a child, and the puzzle I’m trying to solve is, how can I change that? I’m developing a few ideas and I’ve revealed them on this to see what you think. My aim is to get people saying ‘ahh now I understand it’.Below are my linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
16 Maj 202435min
Should a therapist speak to paedophiles? | I didn't say anything about a cure
You may think I’m crazy for doing this after what happened on Instagram with this question last week, but after the comments section got heated with people attacking each other, I decided that I want to give my thoughts. Because I want everybody to remember, we are all on the same team here and to be fighting amongst ourselves is the least productive way forward. And also, nothing ever got solved without a conversation to exchange ideas first. So let’s do that. Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
30 Apr 202435min
The complications with prosecuting child abusers | Police are facing obstacles
As we dive a little deeper into the process that the police go through, we can start to see more. • Fighting against criminals who withhold all information.• Searching for evidence, sometimes from decades ago.• Interviewing children whose memory is not always linear. Can you imagine trying to do this job?That is why I’ve brought Detective Chief Superintendent, Martin Maclean, who spent 30 years in roles such as Head of Child Abuse Investigation onto my podcast to help us understand more - because I know that we’re angry, but there are reasons why it’s the way it is.To all the police officers that do this job, thank you.Martin's bioDetective Chief Superintendent Martin MacLean LLB completed many roles in his 30 years of policing including, Head of the Public Protection Unit, responsible for the investigation of recent and non-recent rape & serious sexual crime against children & adults and also, Head of the National Child Abuse Investigation Unit, responsible for tackling Online Child Sexual Abuse & Exploitation.Useful linksStop It Now HelplineThe Stop It Now helpline provides confidential advice to anyone with concerns about child sexual abuse, including anyone struggling with their own or a loved one’s sexual thoughts, feelings and behaviours towards children: https://www.stopitnow.org.uk/helpline/Stop It Now! Get HelpThis provides information and support for people who are concerned about their online viewing of sexual images of children or people who have not looked at sexual images of children, but have an urge to do so: https://www.stopitnow.org.uk/concerned-about-your-own-thoughts-or-behaviour/concerned-about-use-of-the-internet/self-help/understanding-the-behaviour/Parents ProtectThe Parents Protect website has information and advice for all adults on how to protect children from sexual abuse and exploitation: https://www.parentsprotect.co.uk/ShoreLaunched in 2023, Shore is a website designed especially for young people concerned about their own or someone else’s sexual thoughts and behaviour: https://shorespace.org.uk/Below are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
13 Apr 202457min
Who's protecting children when they're online | What are we going to do about this?
Can you guess what the three situations below have in common?1. On a tablet watching YouTube2. Playing the Xbox on live3. In a WhatsApp groupThe answer is…we are not there.So, if something pops up, like a message from someone suggesting something sexual, or a link that’s about something they like, but when you click, it goes to something else - maybe for something sexual - we are not there to intervene. And with thes online, being part of our culturespace being, we need to move with the times and figure out the best ways to handle this.That’s why I’ve brought Richard Pomfrett onto my podcast, who speaks to parents, teenagers and children on this topic and has valuable advice to give us.Richard Pomfrett informationSince 2013 Richard’s passion for his work as pushed him to continually evolve and shape ‘Stay Safe! Workshops’ to fit the needs of young people today. It is through these specialised and unique sessions, that they aim to educate as many young people as possible. Raising awareness and passing on vital skills and knowledge at key stages in their development and helping prevent them from becoming part of the future dire statistics.To find Richard PomfrettWebsite: https://thestaysafeinitiative.org.ukTwitter: https://twitter.com/StaySafeCICInstagram : https://www.instagram.com/thestaysafeinitiative/Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/thestaysafeinitiative/LinkedIn : https://www.linkedin.com/in/richard-pomfrett-230b63189/My linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
11 Apr 20241h 7min
Daughter takes own life after sexual abuse | Mother explains what happened
The pain this mother feels must be excruciating. But to see her explain what happened so bravely, so that we can understand what to look out for in our own families is a gift, given to us by her. Thank you for doing this Nancy. We all appreciate it greatly.To watch this on my YouTube channel - https://youtu.be/rQrcyrUPn_sTo subscribe to the Something to Say YouTube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialBelow are my links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
6 Mars 202434min
Do I censor myself or stick to my original plan? | Please help
I know I push the boundaries on certain conversations and I’m worried that it’s making schools stay away from me, even though they know it’s strictly storytelling when I visit them. I’m caught in the middle here.My linksWebsite: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
20 Feb 202430min
How can we reach these men before they commit the crime? | An interesting interview
Before anyone says anything about guns, this discussion is about getting to these men before they commit any crime. Shooting them can only happen once the crime has been committed and by then we’re too late. I’ve interviewed an organisation on my podcast who work on the internet to encourage these men to come forward to work with them and I think we can all agree, if one child is saved using their methods then that is job done.They are seeing great results.Christoffer Rahm’s Research Group is at the forefront of efforts to prevent violence, with a specific focus on addressing sexual violence against children. Specializing in clinical research, the group is dedicated to improving our understanding of pedophilia and developing evidence-based treatments. Their research seeks to establish effective, safe, tolerable, and scalable interventions both online and offline for individuals at risk of committing child sexual abuse.Prevent It: https://www.iterapi.se/sites/preventit/Project Bridge: https://www.iterapi.se/sites/bridge/My links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndikaPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficialPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast-1 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
31 Jan 202453min
Surviving sexual abuse from own brothers | An inspirational story for not letting life pull you down
INSPIRATION!!! I know my podcasts are usually tough to get through, but this one’s different. Marisol speaks about how she will no longer be held hostage to the sexual abuse from her brothers and she will now let go of the family that told her to keep it quiet.She is a source of inspiration and I feel honoured to review her story on my latest podcast.If you would like to watch this on YouTube - https://youtu.be/36XJ8akXdFM?si=xhzUH8tMI_JTjdp5Please support Soft White Underbelly YouTube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@SoftWhiteUnderbelly. For original video: https://youtu.be/36XJ8akXdFM?si=60-ch1i3HiHg00erMy links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeM5j3x68j8gq3MHPSLzjmQSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficial Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
17 Jan 20241h 30min
