DISCUSSION: Is porn turning teenage boys aggressive?

As you know, I’m trying to change the way we do things, so we can provide inspiration for other survivors and also for the younger generations who look up to us to set an example.This episode comes with a visual on YouTube too, make sure you check that out here - https://youtu.be/3EVhUSYts0IPlease share this around to help raise awareness for the reality of this crime and help people protect the children in their own family.My links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeM5j3x68j8gq3MHPSLzjmQSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficial Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10 Jan 20247min

Girls are making a lot of money starring in scenarios where they behave underage (speaking with high pitched voices, in colourful bedrooms, whilst holding teddy bears and having sex).There are no laws against this, so no one is breaking any rules. The girls are over 18 and the directors say, the younger they can make them look, the better, because the men love it and the views are going through the roof, which means everyone’s making a lot of money and no one’s getting hurt, so what’s the problem? If you'd like to watch this podcast for the visuals, click here - https://youtu.be/C_enOcVeTTwLink to the documentary - https://youtu.be/8d0l9G-KChM?si=fIj9nsAs1n4zSgDDMy links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeM5j3x68j8gq3MHPSLzjmQSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficial Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

20 Dec 20231h 12min

I know this is something that we never want to think about. But with children being naturally curious, and learning behaviours from what they are see on TV and online, they do things that they don't fully understand - this is more common than you think. I've interviewed Dr. Sophie King-Hill onto this podcast, who's a leading researcher on this topic to help us understand more. Sophie's bioSophie is an Associate Professor in the Health Services Management Centre at the University of Birmingham. She specialises in sexual behaviours and first point assessment in children and young people, sexual health, controversial issues and teenage parents. Profile: https://www.birmingham.ac.uk/schools/social-policy/departments/health-services-management-centre/staff/profile.aspx?ReferenceId=170453Twitter: https://x.com/DrSophieKH?s=20Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsophiekinghill/Mapping tool: https://www.birmingham.ac.uk/schools/social-policy/departments/health-services-management-centre/research/projects/2022/sibling-sexual-behaviour-mapping/index.aspxBook: https://link.springer.com/book/10.1007/978-3-031-34010-9My links Website: https://jeremyindika.comPodcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcastSomething to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.comTo supportMerchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.comPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSayDonate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/Social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindikaTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindikaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeM5j3x68j8gq3MHPSLzjmQSomething to Say linksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficial Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

6 Dec 202355min

If I can turn this subject into something that people become interested in, rather than it being so uncomfortable that they turn away, we can make one massive step towards prevention as we get people talking/raising the awareness. CreditsDirector: Emma LyddonKind To Mind - https://www.kindtomind.orgKind To Mind Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/kindtomind.in/Cinematographer: Chitaranjan KhumanChitaranjan Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lone_picturesJeremy Indika website - https://jeremyindika.com/Something to Say social mediaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1Twitter: https://twitter.com/sts_official_1TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@somethingtosayofficial Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

21 Nov 20231h 28min

When you think of 3-year olds, 5-year old, 7-year olds etc, you think why would anyone sexual abuse something so kind and innocent? And another question is, how could anyone even get aroused by doing such a thing? But whilst we’re asking those questions, it’s actually happening in real life, so I’ve brought a charity called Brave Futures onto my podcast who work with these children to give them a better life.Caroline speaks about the techniques they use with children as young as 3-years old, the challenges of doing a job like this and much more. To anyone that does this job. YOU ARE HEROES.Brave futures website: https://bravefutures.org/Jeremy Indika website: https://jeremyindika.com/Something to Say website: https://somethingtosayofficial.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

7 Nov 202350min

This is shocking I know. But I want to speak more on this. There are many situations where force and violence are not used. It can be gentle, considered as caring, making the child feel like they are doing a good thing by letting the adult touch them in between their legs.Think about 5-years olds, 7-year olds etc, still so vulnerable, and I know this is uncomfortable, but if we don’t start unpacking the reality of this, we stand no chance. Please support this podcast by leaving a review on your podcast app. This has to be a team effort if we stand any chance of success. For more information see website's below. Jeremy Indika: https://jeremyindika.com/Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10 Okt 202347min

If your hooking up with someone for the first time - maybe at a party or a night out - how would you get consent? Pull out a contract and ask them to sign it? Ask every 5-minutes ‘is it still a yes’?Confusing right? And we’re the adults here, now imagine what it’s like to be a teenager, with the added pressure of schools telling you one thing, the law saying something else and the reality of the situation being completely different from both of these. Dr. Emily Setty talks about all of this in this podcast episode.Emily's linksTwitter: https://twitter.com/emilysettyEmail: emily.setty@surrey.ac.ukContact: https://www.surrey.ac.uk/people/emily-settyGuidance for educators document: https://drive.google.com/file/d/14K8VwMaleoV4jS4n-gtQLzttX8afXo4G/viewMore information on Jeremy Indika: https://jeremyindika.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

27 Sep 20231h