Eric Barker: Success and Happiness

Eric Barker: Success and Happiness

This week we talk to Eric Barker Eric is a thought leader in the field of success. His humorous but practical blog, Barking up the Wrong Tree, presents science-based answers and expert insight on success in life. Over 270,000 people subscribe to his weekly email update and his content is syndicated by Time, The Week, and Business Insider. He has been featured in the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, the Financial Times, and he was a columnist for Wired. With a writing career spanning over twenty years, Eric is also a sought-after speaker and interview subject and has been invited to speak at MIT, West Point, NPR affiliates, and on morning television. His first book, Barking Up the Wrong Tree: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Success Is (Mostly) Wrong is available now. In This Interview, Eric Barker and I Discuss... His book, Barking Up the Wrong Tree: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Success Is (Mostly) Wrong How he defines success Achievement, Happiness, Significance, Legacy The dangers of only using one metric for happiness How money is a lever to something else that makes you happy rather than the thing that makes you happy in and of itself There's no finish line in the quest of what makes me feel good We must decide what is "enough" New and novel make our brains happy We must decide what really is going to make us happy in the long run Turning what we do in our lives into games can be helpful in increasing our persistence and grit Games have these attributes: Winnable, Novelty, Goals, Instantaneous Feedback A feeling of progress and meaningful work keeps us engaged Challenging yourself in a familiar task True burnout is when you start to feel pessimistic about your job so you withdraw and then you get poor feedback so you finally disengage Autonomy, Mastery and Purpose A change is as good as a rest That we are telling ourselves stories about what's has meaning and what doesn't How telling your children about their lineage will increase the likelihood they stay away from drugs, stay in school etc Therapy as editing the story we're telling about our lives Cognitive reappraisal The role of positive self-talk I can do it vs I can't take this anymore If you break your arm you wouldn't say "I am broken" you'd say "My arm is broken" Listening to our thoughts from a distance and asking "is this useful?" to be more mindful about what thoughts we identify with We don't choose what makes us happy, we choose what's easy The role of a plan How anticipation is happiness Please Support The Show with a Donation m is a good wolf which represents things like kindness, bravery and love. The other is a bad wolf, which represents things like greed, hatred and fear. The grandson stops and thinks about it for a second then he looks up at his grandfather and says, “Grandfather, which one wins?” The grandfather quietly replies, the one you feed The Tale of Two Wolves is often attributed to the Cherokee indians but there seems to be no real proof of this. It has also been attributed to evangelical preacher Billy Graham and Irish Playwright George Bernard Shaw. It appears no one knows for sure but this does not diminish the power of the parable. This parable goes by many names including: The Tale of Two Wolves The Parable of the Two Wolves Two Wolves Which Wolf Do You Feed Which Wolf are You Feeding Which Wolf Will You Feed It also often features different animals, mainly two dogs.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Harness the Power of Rituals with Michael Norton

How to Harness the Power of Rituals with Michael Norton

In this episode, Michael Norton shares how to harness the power of rituals in everyday life. He discusses the difference between rituals and habits that shed light on the transformative power of rituals. Michael's research and anecdotes emphasize the emotional and psychological benefits of engaging in rituals, underscoring their potential to enhance well-being and enrich your life. In this episode, you will be able to: Discover the benefits of incorporating daily rituals for increased happiness and fulfillment Learn how to differentiate between rituals, habits, and compulsions, and harness the power of intentional practices Explore the emotional benefits of relationship rituals and how they can deepen connections Find out how rituals play a vital role in managing uncertainty and stress, and how they can be a powerful tool for maintaining emotional balance To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Stories of Finding Meaningful Work with Dan Heath

Stories of Finding Meaningful Work with Dan Heath

In this episode, Dan Heath shares incredible stories of finding meaningful work from guests on his podcast. With his unique writing experience on how to shape environments for better decisions, motivating emotional desires for change, and differentiating between self-regulation and self-control, Dan offers valuable insights into finding meaning in whatever work you do. In this episode, you will be able to: Create a supportive environment to make better decisions that align with core desires Find bright spots in the context of change that focus on positive outcomes to learn from Discover ways to find meaning and fulfillment in your work Learn the concept of narrow framing in decision-making, highlighting what's most important in your life To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

16 Juli 20241h 4min

How to Bring Curiosity and Mindfulness Into Everyday Life with Noah Rasheta

How to Bring Curiosity and Mindfulness Into Everyday Life with Noah Rasheta

In this episode, Noah Rasheta explores how to bring curiosity and mindfulness Into everyday life. He discusses secular Buddhism and how to integrate some of these ancient practices into your life. Discover how to infuse your day with increased awareness and presence for a fresh perspective on personal growth and well-being. In this episode, you will be able to: Embrace the power of curiosity and stay open to new possibilities Explore the fascinating world of secular Buddhism and its potential impact on your daily life Learn how to integrate meditation into your day for increased awareness and presence Uncover the power of consistently reflecting on thoughts and reactions to life Master the art of skillfully managing your emotions and thoughts for a more balanced and fulfilling life To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Face Mortality and Live an Authentic Life with Alua Arthur

How to Face Mortality and Live an Authentic Life with Alua Arthur

In this episode, Alua Arthur shares how to face mortality and live an authentic life. She discusses her journey of grappling with the societal constructs of a “good life” versus her inner desires for adventure and discovery. Through her personal experiences, she sheds light on the importance of acknowledging mortality and the need for comprehensive end-of-life planning. Her story captures the essence of life and the human experience, urging us to confront our fears and live authentically. In this episode, you will be able to: Embrace mortality and live fully by gaining insights on embracing life’s impermanence Explore the essential role of death doulas in providing compassionate end-of-life care and support Understand the profound impact of acknowledging mortality on making authentic and meaningful life choices Navigate the journey of grief while uncovering opportunities for personal growth and healing Gain practical advice and insights to effectively plan for the end of life, ensuring peace of mind and comfort for yourself and loved ones To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

9 Juli 202458min

How to Uncover the Path to Self-Discovery and Healing with Dr. Sara Kuberic

How to Uncover the Path to Self-Discovery and Healing with Dr. Sara Kuberic

In this episode, Dr. Sara Kuburic explores ways to uncover the path to self-discovery and healing. She offers a compelling perspective on the topic of embracing personal responsibility for healing. Drawing from her own transformative journey and experience as a therapist, Sara brings a depth of insight and understanding to the complexities of healing and self-discovery. In this episode, you will be able to: Explore how to overcome traumatic childhood experiences for personal growth and healing Understand the self-discovery process to unlock your true potential and live authentically Embrace personal responsibility for healing to create a fulfilling and empowered life Discover the impact of inauthentic self-expression and how it affects your well-being Learn how to navigate life’s choices and consequences with confidence and clarity To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

5 Juli 20241h 1min

Understanding Attachment Styles to Build Better Relationships with Thais Gibson

Understanding Attachment Styles to Build Better Relationships with Thais Gibson

In this episode, Thais Gibson shares her wealth of knowledge and experience with attachment styles and how they affect personal relationships. You’ll discover how to transform your relationships and deepen connections with others by learning powerful techniques to reprogram your subconscious mind. In this episode, you will be able to: Understand the impact of early childhood experiences on adult attachment styles Reprogram your subconscious mind with effective techniques for transforming personal relationships Differentiate between the subconscious and unconscious mind to gain insight into your attachment patterns Explore the role of core wounds in personal development and how they influence attachment styles in relationships Uncover the significance of understanding attachment styles in creating healthier and more fulfilling relationships To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 Juli 202454min

The Power of Healing in Community with Dr. Joy Harden Bradford

The Power of Healing in Community with Dr. Joy Harden Bradford

In this episode, Dr. Joy Harden discusses common mental health challenges and the power of healing in community. She brings her expertise to the forefront of culturally competent therapy and mental health discussions. With a focus on empowering individuals to navigate such challenges, she offers valuable insights into managing anxiety, finding a good therapist, and the importance of friendships in a healing journey. In this episode, you will be able to: Understand the benefits of culturally competent therapy for personalized mental health support Discover practical techniques for managing anxiety through grounding exercises Explore the crucial role of friendships in maintaining good mental health and well-being Uncover effective strategies for finding a therapist who is the right fit for your mental health needs Recognize the impact of self-silencing on mental health and well-being, and how to address it To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

28 Juni 20241h 2min

How to Shift Your Mindset and Believe More is Possible with Cory Allen

How to Shift Your Mindset and Believe More is Possible with Cory Allen

In this episode, Cory Allen discusses how to shift your mindset and believe more is possible in your life. Cory brings a unique blend of wisdom and practicality to the realm of personal growth and self-awareness. He shares his insights on mindfulness and meditation, offering a fresh perspective on navigating the inner landscape. Through his work, he empowers listeners to embark on a journey of self-discovery and inner transformation, making complex spiritual concepts accessible and applicable to everyday life. In this episode, you will be able to: Overcome negative thinking patterns to take control of your mindset Develop self-awareness that can lead to a deeper understanding of yourself and others Master effective communication strategies to enhance your ability to express yourself authentically and connect with those around you Recognize and address assumptions that can significantly improve mental well-being Embrace incremental steps toward self-improvement leading to lasting positive changes and a greater sense of fulfillment in life To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

25 Juni 20241h 6min

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