Eric Barker: Success and Happiness

Eric Barker: Success and Happiness

This week we talk to Eric Barker Eric is a thought leader in the field of success. His humorous but practical blog, Barking up the Wrong Tree, presents science-based answers and expert insight on success in life. Over 270,000 people subscribe to his weekly email update and his content is syndicated by Time, The Week, and Business Insider. He has been featured in the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, the Financial Times, and he was a columnist for Wired. With a writing career spanning over twenty years, Eric is also a sought-after speaker and interview subject and has been invited to speak at MIT, West Point, NPR affiliates, and on morning television. His first book, Barking Up the Wrong Tree: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Success Is (Mostly) Wrong is available now. In This Interview, Eric Barker and I Discuss... His book, Barking Up the Wrong Tree: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Success Is (Mostly) Wrong How he defines success Achievement, Happiness, Significance, Legacy The dangers of only using one metric for happiness How money is a lever to something else that makes you happy rather than the thing that makes you happy in and of itself There's no finish line in the quest of what makes me feel good We must decide what is "enough" New and novel make our brains happy We must decide what really is going to make us happy in the long run Turning what we do in our lives into games can be helpful in increasing our persistence and grit Games have these attributes: Winnable, Novelty, Goals, Instantaneous Feedback A feeling of progress and meaningful work keeps us engaged Challenging yourself in a familiar task True burnout is when you start to feel pessimistic about your job so you withdraw and then you get poor feedback so you finally disengage Autonomy, Mastery and Purpose A change is as good as a rest That we are telling ourselves stories about what's has meaning and what doesn't How telling your children about their lineage will increase the likelihood they stay away from drugs, stay in school etc Therapy as editing the story we're telling about our lives Cognitive reappraisal The role of positive self-talk I can do it vs I can't take this anymore If you break your arm you wouldn't say "I am broken" you'd say "My arm is broken" Listening to our thoughts from a distance and asking "is this useful?" to be more mindful about what thoughts we identify with We don't choose what makes us happy, we choose what's easy The role of a plan How anticipation is happiness Please Support The Show with a Donation m is a good wolf which represents things like kindness, bravery and love. The other is a bad wolf, which represents things like greed, hatred and fear. The grandson stops and thinks about it for a second then he looks up at his grandfather and says, “Grandfather, which one wins?” The grandfather quietly replies, the one you feed The Tale of Two Wolves is often attributed to the Cherokee indians but there seems to be no real proof of this. It has also been attributed to evangelical preacher Billy Graham and Irish Playwright George Bernard Shaw. It appears no one knows for sure but this does not diminish the power of the parable. This parable goes by many names including: The Tale of Two Wolves The Parable of the Two Wolves Two Wolves Which Wolf Do You Feed Which Wolf are You Feeding Which Wolf Will You Feed It also often features different animals, mainly two dogs.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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What Can Be Found When Losing Sight with Andrew Leland

What Can Be Found When Losing Sight with Andrew Leland

Andrew Leland shares a deeply personal story of losing his vision due to retinitis pigmentosa. He shares some of the challenges and necessary adjustments that come with acquiring with his gradual disability. With courage and humor, Andrew navigates the complex emotional terrain of coming to terms with his changing abilities and sheds light on what can be found when losing sight. In this episode, you will be able to: More deeply understand the journey of acquiring a disability Understand the nature of identity and how it changes throughout stages of life Develop compassion and curiosity for those with with unique challenges Identify what it means to balance independence and interdependance Foster better communication for those living with differing abilities To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 Feb 202459min

Embracing Life’s Complexities with Curiosity and Questions with Pádraig Ó Tuama

Embracing Life’s Complexities with Curiosity and Questions with Pádraig Ó Tuama

In this episode, Pádraig Ó Tuama shares what it means to learn to begin embracing life’s complexities with curiosity and questions. He delves into the profound impact of time, highlighting the wisdom that comes from shared experiences. Pádraig’s insightful anecdotes about meeting others who have navigated similar struggles emphasize the transformative power of empathy and connection. Through his poetry, he invites readers to contemplate the layers of meaning and significance in their own lives, fostering a sense of introspection and self-awareness. In this episode, you will be able to: Unlock the transformative power of poetry in your life Understand the nuances of conflict resolution with deeper understanding Embrace life’s complexities by getting curious and asking questions Explore the deep connection between belief, God, and religion Harness the power of truth-telling for personal growth and success To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 Feb 202455min

Special Episode:  Exploring The Different Paths to Recovery

Special Episode: Exploring The Different Paths to Recovery

In this special episode, Eric is joined by Laura Cathcart Robbins, Carl Erik Fisher, and Holly Whitaker to share their personal experiences with addiction and recovery. Their discussion explores the complex definitions of recovery, challenging the conventional norms and emphasizing the need for a broader and more inclusive approach. In this episode, you will be able to: Explore the distinction between sobriety and recovery for a more holistic approach to healing Understand the personal experiences with addiction and recovery to broaden your perspective Learn how to measure progress in recovery, empowering yourself with tools to track personal growth Explore diverse perspectives on the use of medications in addiction treatment for a more informed understanding Gain understanding of Dry January in the recovery journey, uncovering potential benefits and insights To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

31 Jan 20241h 6min

How to Get Out of Your Comfort Zone with Jessica Hagy

How to Get Out of Your Comfort Zone with Jessica Hagy

Jessica Hagy's interesting and unique work explores the concept of visual grammar and the power of expression through diagrams. Her pursuit of self-discovery expanded as she delved into the world of online connections, finding encouragement and support from strangers, ultimately reshaping her perspective. Through her experiences, she discovered the profound impact of embracing vulnerability and learning how to get out of our comfort zones. She shares how seeking supportive communities is a vital component in navigating life's challenges.  In this episode, you will be able to: Embrace vulnerability and unlock your true potential for personal growth Discover the power of finding a supportive community for navigating life’s challenges Learn to truly be your true self in a noisy world and find meaningful connections Strive for the greatest good by embracing self-discovery and authenticity Harness the power of the internet as a tool for personal growth and self-improvement To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

26 Jan 202434min

Learning to Find Comfort in Discomfort with Light Watkins

Learning to Find Comfort in Discomfort with Light Watkins

In this episode, Light Watkins discusses important principles from his latest book, Travel Light: Spiritual Minimalism to Live a More Fulfilled Life.  He emphasizes the importance of making choices that align with the expansive feeling to embody one’s most authentic self, and embracing discomfort for personal growth. Light’s engaging storytelling style captures the essence of his spiritual journey and his message of seeking internal happiness rather than external validation serves as a powerful reminder for individuals on their life journey. In this episode, you will be able to: Discover the power of spiritual minimalism and unlock your path to personal growth Embrace discomfort to uncover hidden strengths and accelerate personal development Take action and experience the transformative power of giving to others Learn the art of embracing discomfort to unlock new levels of personal growth Seek diverse advice to unlock new perspectives and accelerate personal development To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

23 Jan 20241h

How to Overcome Perfectionism and Create Your Best Work with David Kadavy

How to Overcome Perfectionism and Create Your Best Work with David Kadavy

In this episode, David Kadavy discusses how to overcome procrastination and create your best work. He provides valuable insights on unlocking true passions through curiosity and experimentation and highlights the importance of finding a balance between exploiting existing knowledge and exploring new possibilities. In this episode, you will be able to: Uncover unexpected opportunities by tapping into creativity Conquer your inner barriers and embrace true passions Ignite curiosity and spark innovation through experimentation Achieve balance by exploring new paths while exploiting current strengths Dive into the journey of self-discovery through the power of curiosity To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

19 Jan 202446min

The Well-Nourished Life: Tips for Mindful Eating and Living with Andrea Lieberstein

The Well-Nourished Life: Tips for Mindful Eating and Living with Andrea Lieberstein

In this episode, Andrea Lieberstein explores what it means to have a well nourished life and learning to eat and live mindfully. Discover the transformative power in healing our relationship with food and learn to understand the difference between emotional and physical hunger. Andrea shares practical strategies to reduce emotional eating and foster a healthier approach to nourishment and also explains various triggers and patterns that contribute to unhealthy eating habits. In this episode, you’ll be able to: Embrace mindful eating for a healthier relationship with food Discover the power of self-compassion to tackle the challenges of emotional eating Cultivate awareness and mindfulness for a more fulfilling life Learn to develop a balanced and positive connection with food Explore creative outlets for overall holistic well-being To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

16 Jan 20241h 7min

Mastering Change When Everything is Changing with Brad Stulberg

Mastering Change When Everything is Changing with Brad Stulberg

For Brad Stulberg, the idea of rugged flexibility became a central theme in his understanding of change and resilience. In this episode, Brad and Eric explore what mastering change when everything is changing looks like. They also discuss practical strategies to navigate life’s challenge with rugged flexibility to live a more meaningful life.In this episode, you will be able to: Discover the power of embracing change and adaptability for personal growth and success Uncover the secrets to navigating change and finding deeper meaning in life’s transitions Learn how to strike a perfect balance between determination and adaptability to thrive in any situation Unlock the key to shifting your perception of time during challenging moments and emerging stronger Explore the importance of rugged flexibility and its impact on resilience and mental strength To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12 Jan 20241h 6min

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