The Anxious Love Coach16 Maj 2023

64: Are you nurturing your "inner relationship"? with Luci Lampe

It's easy to focus on our partners and neglect our own "inner relationship." In this episode, my friend Luci Lampe and I discuss the balance between our masculine and feminine sides - yin and yang - for a better partnership. We also talk about aspects of the feminine archetypes that live within all of us that are often shamed and exiled – like the "slut" and the "crazy bitch"-- and how to love and utilize these parts in ways that serve us, so we can be more authentic, free, and full of aliveness.

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Time Stamps:

5:33 What is masculine/feminine union, and why is it important?

18:30 Collaborating in our masculine and feminine strengths

22:25 Toxic contexts for polarity

27:30 Getting sideswept by other potential partners when you are in crisis

29:00 The difference between dumping your emotions on someone and revealing your heart

31:00 The three exiled parts of the feminine: the slut, the witch and the crazy bitch

38:30 Properly integrating the exiled parts of the feminine

44:34 Being attuned to your body: a key to self trust

48:50 Coming into union with the masculine

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