Ruby Frankie And the Predatory World Of 'Life Coaches'

Ruby Frankie And the Predatory World Of 'Life Coaches'

Can a person truly be brainwashed to the extent of overlooking the well-being of their own children? This is the central question that Tony Brueski and psychotherapist Shavaun Scott explore in a recent episode of "Hidden Killers," focusing on the complex and disturbing case involving Ruby Franke, Jodi Hildebrandt, and Kevin Franke.

Kevin Franke, Ruby’s husband, now amidst a divorce, has claimed through his attorney that he was brainwashed by Ruby and Jodi’s life coach teachings. He asserts that this manipulation rendered him oblivious to the abuse his children were undergoing. "I was so desperate to get my wife and my children back, I was willing to take anyone's advice," he reportedly said. Brueski and Scott delve into the plausibility of this defense and its implications.

Shavaun Scott, a seasoned psychotherapist, expresses skepticism about the brainwashing claim. She suggests that Kevin's situation is more indicative of a personality flaw marked by extreme passivity, rather than brainwashing typically seen in hostage scenarios or cults. "What Kevin Franke experienced is more, he's incredibly passive and let Ruby make all the big decisions regarding the kids," Scott explains, highlighting the moral failing in Kevin’s lack of initiative as a parent.

The discussion then shifts to the broader issue of the term 'life coach,' a title used by Ruby Franke and Jodi Hildebrandt. Scott expresses concern about the unregulated nature of this industry, noting the potential for psychological damage inflicted by unqualified individuals masquerading as professional advisors. "It's a scam. They're peddling snake oil with a lot of psychobabble," she remarks, pointing out the stark contrast between the rigorous training required for licensed mental health clinicians and the lack of oversight in life coaching.

Scott also delves into the insidious tactics employed by these self-proclaimed life coaches, describing how they exploit vulnerable individuals seeking quick fixes for complex issues. She emphasizes the danger of individuals like Hildebrandt, who was even recommended by a church, infiltrating trusted communities and disseminating harmful ideologies under the guise of professional guidance.

The conversation also touches on the changing dynamics within the mental health profession, with technology and other lucrative fields attracting young talent, leaving a gap in the traditional psychotherapy landscape. Scott stresses the demanding nature of the profession and the critical importance of maintaining rigorous standards to ensure public protection.

As the episode concludes, Brueski and Scott reflect on the challenging task of regulating industries like life coaching. While outright banning terms or practices may not be feasible, they agree on the importance of raising public awareness and education to prevent exploitation by unqualified individuals.

The Franke-Hildebrandt case, as dissected by Brueski and Scott, sheds light on the complexities of familial dynamics, the blurred lines between influence and neglect, and the dangers lurking in unregulated advisory roles. It serves as a cautionary tale about the lengths to which individuals may go under the influence of toxic relationships and unverified expertise.

In a world where the distinction between genuine help and harmful manipulation is increasingly blurred, how do we safeguard ourselves and our loved ones from falling prey to the hidden killers in our midst?
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How Did CPS MISS The Abuse Of Ruby Franke For Years?

How Did CPS MISS The Abuse Of Ruby Franke For Years?

It's a question that has left millions of fans bewildered: How does a prominent YouTube influencer, adored by millions, become a subject of a shocking child abuse investigation? Ruby Frankie, the face behind the popular YouTube channel "8 Passengers," along with her business partner Jody Hildebrandt, have been thrust into the spotlight, and not for their usual content. Their arrest followed a harrowing 911 call by a neighbor after discovering an emaciated 12-year-old boy, his wrists and ankles bound with duct tape, knocking at their door. This dark turn of events, which Tony Brueski of the "Hidden Killers" podcast termed a "chilling revelation," has shaken the social media community to its core. “You know, that was a question I had too, because, as you said, there are so many eyes on this family and they're broadcasting their parenting," Eric Faddis, a former Felony Prosecutor, weighed in on the recent episode of "Hidden Killers." Indeed, their platform was a window into their lives, or at least what they chose to display. But as Tony posited, how did the world go from watching trivial incidents on her YouTube channel, such as Ruby's refusal to bring lunch to her child at school, to hearing about allegations of child abuse, malnutrition, and possible starvation? A few sharp-eyed viewers had already raised concerns about the "8 Passengers" content, deeming some parental choices as potentially harmful. This led to a Change.org petition urging child protective services (CPS) to investigate. The service did step in, but found no grounds to act at the time. Adding more complexity to the narrative, Faddis mentioned the defense called "reasonable parental discipline," which can be employed in child abuse cases. The defense allows parents to justify their actions as their parenting style if they believe it was "reasonable." The line between strict parenting and abuse can sometimes blur, but the events surrounding the Frankies indicate a much more severe scenario. There's also the haunting revelation that one of Ruby's older children, currently in college, had previously alerted CPS about the conditions at home. "Why was this not investigated further when you literally have a child going, 'Hey, my mom's crazy. She's abusing us,'" Brueski lamented. This revelation puts CPS under scrutiny. Critics argue that the organization sometimes fails to act even when confronted with glaring red flags, while others believe it often oversteps its boundaries. Faddis offered a potential solution to the challenges plaguing CPS. "I would strongly push for is evidence-based standards," he shared. Rather than leaving decisions solely to the subjective judgment of caseworkers, introducing concrete, evidence-backed standards on parenting, nutrition, and discipline might lead to more accurate evaluations. It's undeniable that the case of Ruby Frankie and Jody Hildebrandt serves as a stark reminder of the perils that may lurk behind the curated images of social media stardom. While fans grapple with the shocking revelations, it's essential to remember the broader picture. As Brueski and Faddis highlighted, there's an urgent need for reform and introspection in child protection systems. As investigations continue and the full story unfolds, one question remains: How many other cases have gone unnoticed, hidden behind the veil of online fame? Want to listen to ALL of our podcasts AD-FREE? Subscribe through APPLE PODCASTS, and try it for three days free: https://tinyurl.com/ycw626tj Follow Our Other Cases: https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com The latest on Catching the Long Island Serial Killer, Awaiting Admission: BTK’s Unconfessed Crimes, Chad & Lori Daybell, The Murder of Ana Walshe, Alex Murdaugh, Bryan Kohberger, Lucy Letby, Kouri Richins, Justice for Harmony Montgomery, The Murder of Stephen Smith, The Murder of Madeline Kingsbury, and much more! Listen at https://www.truecrimetodaypod.com

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