141. How to get over someone you can't stop thinking about

141. How to get over someone you can't stop thinking about

We all know the feeling of wanting desperately to move on from someone - an ex, a past love, situationship, someone we know we shouldn't be with - but being unable to stop obsessively thinking about them. In this episode we explore the psychology behind why that is, but also how to get to the next stage of healing where you are free of the past memories, thoughts and your feelings for this person. We discuss:

  • The psychological need for emotional closure and how to provide YOURSELF closure
  • The Polyanna principle and positive bias for the past
  • The chemical reason for obsession and unrequited
  • Anxious attachment and overthinking
  • The excuses that keep us invested in the wrong people
  • How to emotionally detach
  • The science of no-contact
  • 10 tips for getting over someone you can't stop thinking about

If you are struggling to move on, even though you've tried and are ready, this one is for you as we unpack how to move on from someone you can't stop thinking about.

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343. The psychology of saturn's return

343. The psychology of saturn's return

Have you ever felt like everything in your late twenties is suddenly up for grabs - your relationships, your career, even who you thought you were? It might be your Saturn return - a period of upheava...

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342. The psychology of dissociation

342. The psychology of dissociation

Have you ever felt like the world around you isn’t quite real, or like you’re watching your life from the outside? Have you ever driven somewhere and suddenly wondered how you got there? It might be d...

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341. The 5 types of toxic friendships

341. The 5 types of toxic friendships

Friendships should be a source of joy – people who just make life lighter. But not all friendships feel that way. Some leave us drained, insecure, or questioning our worth. And it can be hard to admit...

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340. The 10 regrets I have about my 20s (so far)

340. The 10 regrets I have about my 20s (so far)

Today I'm reflecting on some of the lessons I've been taking from my early 20s. We all have regrets about things we wish we'd done differently or not done at all, and I'm hoping you can learn from min...

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339. The psychology of rock bottom

339. The psychology of rock bottom

Hitting rock bottom is one of the most painful human experiences - when the future is blurry, the past feels heavy, and you barely recognize the person staring back in the mirror. Maybe it’s the end o...

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I Am Not Here To Manage Other People's Emotions

I Am Not Here To Manage Other People's Emotions

In this bonus release, I am sharing an episode of my other podcast, MANTRA. This week's mantra is I Am Not Here to Manage Other People’s Emotions. It's a common trap to feel responsible for the feelin...

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338. The psychology of borderline personality disorder (BPD)

338. The psychology of borderline personality disorder (BPD)

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is one of the most misunderstood mental health conditions, clouded by stigma and misinformation. In this episode, we take a compassionate, research-based look at ...

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337. Are personality tests legit?

337. Are personality tests legit?

From Myers-Briggs to the Big Five, almost all of us at some stage have done a personality test. Whether it labelled you an introvert or extrovert, a big thinker or a small details individual, it's eas...

28 Sep 202525min

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