11 A Double Mitzvah! (Robby Hoffman & David Yarus)

Hi best friends! For our season 3 finale we are celebrating C*mgratulations and FRIENDSHIPS! Two things that got us through this wildly tough year. We're joined by two amazing Best Friends, hilarious Stand-up Comedians and co-hosts of the 'Unofficial Expert' podcast, Sydnee Washington and Marie Faustin.  Sydnee and Marie tell us about how they met and fell in friend love, making friends as adults, working with friends, and what it takes to make a great long-lasting friendship work.  Remy talks about it being hard to be friends as an insecure person, and why it is important to be there for them rather than roast them. Finally, we cover the importance of your friends getting along with your partner easily; along with having different friends for different things while still having a 'home base friend'. Follow Marie @Reeezy and Sydnee @JustSydBW Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy at @RemyKassimir  Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

29 Dec 20201h 5min

Trigger Warning: Rape/Sexual Assault/Cults This week we are joined by comedian, writer and professor Brooke Arnold. Brooke tells us all about her experience of growing up in a cult that has been called "The world's most woman-hating cult" from the ages of 7 to 17, how she escaped and what adjusting to life afterwards was like. We get a look deep inside her former cult-- The Institute in Basic Life Principles (IBLP) and its '7 Non-Optional Life Principles' - and how those principles (Design, Authority, Responsibility, Suffering, Ownership, and Freedom) were constructed to justify and perpetuate a pyramid scheme of abuse and sexual assault. We discuss what makes something a cult, how to tell if something is a cult, and what makes people vulnerable to being sucked in. Finally Brooke tells us how cults are just indicators of larger culture, why she prefers a psychedelic approach to therapy and how a recent trip to her former cult leader Bill Gothard's house led her to a healing revelation. Follow Brooke @TheBrookeArnold Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy at @RemyKassimir Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

22 Dec 20201h 37min

We're talking hormones and women's healthcare with a prominent leader in women's medicine and author of 'Beyond The Pill,' Dr Jolene Brighten. Dr Brighten tells us how she combines naturopathic and conventional medicine to treat various hormonal imbalances and runs us through different options of birth control for women depending on how their bodies respond.  She tells us about PCOS (Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome), which can occur after coming off of birth control and how she and other women have been misdiagnosed with it. Finally, Dr Brighten tells us about navigating health issues for the trans community, a horrifying TikTok trend that sheds light on how the US healthcare system is failing women and sexual abuse survivors, and how to better advocate for yourself in medical situations.  TW: Sexual Assault/Rape Follow Dr Brighten @DrJoleneBrighten  Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and Remy at @RemyKassimir  Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE Book Mentioned - Medical Apartheid Movie Mentioned - Meet Your Meat Contraception Guide - Contraception Guide

14 Dec 20201h 41min

This week we are joined by two hilarious comedians to talk about advice and whether the people who dish it out can be trusted. Joey Dardano, host of 'Help From A Hypocrite' podcast and Irene Morales, host of 'Dear Nana: Advice From An Idiot' talk the best advice they've received on their respective podcasts, gaining life experience in order to give advice and how to properly take on any advice that someone gives you.    Joey and Irene both tells us about about growing up as Cuban Catholics and we discuss how God/ The Universe plays a factor in people's lives differently. We talk about Irene's miraculous recovery from Spinal Meningitis and Joey tells us about recovering from a break up and why casual sex doesn't work for everyone. Finally, we talk Joey's IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) and how he became TikTok famous because of it, as well as the difficulties surrounding bringing it up with a new partner.   Follow Joey @joeydardano and Irene @Irenesmorales Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy at @RemyKassimir  Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

8 Dec 20201h 28min

We're talking two of our favorite things- sex and weed with award-winning sex educator and coach Ashley Manta (The Cannasexual) and comedians and regular cannabis consumers Chanel Ali and Courtney Reynolds.  We're talking everything from using weed as a tool to help relax you during sex, to using it to help conversation about sex flow freely afterwards in the debrief. Ashley tells us all about the effects of CBD, THC, and even CBN; and gives advice on how to incorporate these into your sex lives, both alone and partnered. Courtney and Chanel tell us all about their relationship, and why weed was such a monumental part of forming the foundation for it. Chanel tells us about her 'smoking safety net' and why it is so important for her to be comfortable with someone if she wants to be high around them. Follow Ashley at @cannasexual , Chanel @ChanelAli and Courtney @FullCourtComedy Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy at @RemyKassimir  Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

1 Dec 20201h 22min

New York natives EJ Dickson, culture writer for Rolling Stone, and Julia Moshy, Socialite and tastemaker join us this week to talk growing up in New York City in various social circles, high school sex scandals, which celebrities are the most attainable, and the generational differences between Millenials and Gen-Z due to social media. EJ tells us about a few of her articles including, "No Voting, No Cumming" a small movement started by a dominatrixes in order to encourage their subs to vote blue, and Julia tells us how she's been trolled by Trump supporters for supporting Joe Biden despite her former friendship with Tiffany Trump. Finally, we discuss "Deepfakes," the artificial intelligence software switching many underage TikTokers faces onto the faces of pornstars. Follow EJ and Julia @EJDickson & @Julia.Moshy Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and Remy at @RemyKassimir There is also some hot TEA in this unedited episode that definitely won't make the episode! Check it out here. Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE Check out some of EJ's articles that we mentioned here: An Oral History of 'Ratatouille: The Musical' Why Sexual-Abuse Survivors Are Getting Sucked Into QAnon How a Pro-Trump 'Stop the Steal' Group Became 'Gay Communists for Socialism' People Are Impossibly Horny for Fivey, the FiveThirtyEight Fox 'Not Voting? Not Cumming!': Meet the Dominatrixes Getting Submissives to Vote Blue TikTok Stars Are Being Turned Into Deepfake Porn Without Their Consent Why Did Everyone Act Like I Was Crazy When I Decided to Have a Baby in My 20s?

23 Nov 20201h 25min

Why don't cis men know about the flat tongue technique, and why won't some people take advice once you tell them how you like it? We're breaking it down with the host of 'We're Having Gay Sex', Ashley Gavin and her 'Youth in the Booth' Gara Lonning. These two hilarious comedians discuss how their podcast blew up and how Gara keeps Ashley from getting cancelled. Gara gives us tips on being in an open relationship while Ashley gives some advice on her favored techniques for giving oral, and shines a light on common mistakes people make when going down on a vulva. Finally, everyone talks about their grooming situations, and how showered or un-showered they want a partner to be before going south. Follow Ashley and Gara @ashgavs @garararararara Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy at @RemyKassimir Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

17 Nov 20201h 14min

Recorded on the day the election was over, this is a chill joyous episode to celebrate. It's been a stressful week of news watching so we're winding down and making a list of our favorite TV shows; for laughing to, crying to, and getting horny to. Comedian and 'TV, I Say' host Ashley Ray comes by to spill her favorites, tell us about the tweet that got her banned from Twitter today, living as a solo poly person and her cumazingly millennial first time story. Follow Ashley @TheAshleyRay Follow us at @howcumpodcast and Remy at @RemyKassimir  Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

10 Nov 20201h 17min