12 They came, they saw, they conquered (Ian Fidance & Jes Tom)

We're talking balding with comedian+ podcaster Dylan Palladino! Dylan tells us about his momentous decision to shave his head and his hair-loss journey that led him to it. We discuss the emotional side of hair loss, the efficacy of Propecia, and the myths about its connection to erectile disfunction. Dylan tells us about his own bouts with ED and the importance of bringing up taboo/embarrassing conversations amongst cis men and the benefits of sharing stories.  Finally we talk body hair, beards, and pube maintenance!    Follow Dylan at @dylanpalladino Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and @RemyKassimir  Sign up for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

27 Sep 202150min

This week we are talking anal penetration and "Peg The Patriarchy," a slogan coined by sex educator Luna Mattatas but made uber viral by Cara DeLevigne last week, wearing the stolen phrase in a Dior outfit on the red carpet of the Met Gala.  We talk to Luna about what she intended the phrase to mean when she coined it in 2015 and what Cara has taken it to mean as well as the Twitter discourse surrounding it and how she felt seeing it stolen. We also discuss why the term "pegging" itself can be problematic, its origin story with former guest Dan Savage and various other terms to use instead.  We then learn all about pegging welcuming back Lola Jean, sex educator and instructor of Remy's masturbation class, who teaches us about using fingers, using a strap on, and toys to use when first experiencing anal. We also talk to Brian who receives anal often from a cis female partner and tells us about how he got into it as well as his preparation for a date.  TW: Sensitive content Follow Luna @LunaMatatas + Lola @Lolajeandotcom  Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and @RemyKassimir  Sign up for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

21 Sep 20211h 38min

We're talking Greek Life this week! Sororities, Fraternities, rushing, hazing and why people do it-- with one of Remy's best friends and college roommate of 3 years Jordyn Fischer! Jordyn is the VP of programming at the creative video company Jellysmack and though she was not in a sorority in college, was enthralled by "Rush Tok" or "Bama Rush" taking over Tik Tok a few weeks ago. We discuss the viral phenomenon, the PNM's in the videos, as well as how our college experiences differed. We also talk about the financial barriers to joining a sorority or frat, and how joining may or may effect your future. Finally, Remy reveals her story of how she started a sorority senior year (and then was swiftly asked not to come to events anymore) and Jordyn recounts what it was like being her roommate at the time.    Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and @RemyKassimir  Sign up for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

10 Sep 202159min

Only Fans this week announced that they would no longer be allowing adult content and then took it back after swift internet backlash. We are talking to Anya Volz (comedian, podcaster, OF creator), Billy Procida (comedian, podcaster, OF creator), and Kenneth Pabon (Tik Tok sensation and OF creator) about how they were feeling during the impending ban and how credit card companies and social media sites are still suppressing sex workers and their content. Yes, cumgrats to us for bringing OF back, but what else can we do to help sex workers? Also, cumgrats to comedian and Remy's boyfriend Ben DeMarco who is back to celebrate his 35th birthday and the fact that he knew OF would take it back.  TW: SA, human trafficking Follow Anya @Anyavolz, Billy @BillyProcida, Kenneth @KennethPabon Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and @RemyKassimir and Ben @BennyDNYC Sign up for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

31 Aug 20211h 19min

New York Times bestselling author of 'Rich Bitch' and 'Boss Bitch' Nicole Lapin joins us to talk about taking control of your finances. We discuss the taboo around money conversation and how to alleviate some of the secrecy by talking about your situation first. Coming from an immigrant family with money struggles, Nicole tells us about her journey towards being financially literate including experiences with entitled "hedge-fund bros." We discuss her new podcast 'Money Rehab' and Nicole gives us an overview of how to take back control of your money, tips for budgeting and the importance of goal setting. Finally, we discuss the struggle of being a strong financially independent woman today, the deep-rooted sexism within some companies, and how to get the raise you deserve. Thank you to our Cumpanion Skyler for sharing her story of living undiagnosed with vaginismus and her squirting journey! Follow Nicole @NicoleLapin Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and @RemyKassimir Sign up for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

21 Aug 20211h 4min

The internet is abuzz with celebrities from Jake Gyllenhall to Mila Kunis + Ashton Kutcher revealing how often or how little they shower from so you KNOW it's time for Dirty Girl Privilege Part Deux with our friends and Hot Mess Comedy Hour hosts Emily Lubin and Andrea Allan! The girls are back and this time they are joined by comedian/ The Downside host Gianmarco Soresi, who went viral this week for a literal Twitter feud with Dwayne The Rock Johnson about hygiene!! Cumazing. We talk all things showering, the celebs who don't, why some of us don't like to, the conspiracy theories behind why these celebs are divulging this stuff and whether a baby wipe really is enough to clean you.   Follow Gianmarco @GianmarcoSoresi, Andrea @AndreaComedy69 and Emily @Lubination Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and @RemyKassimir  Sign up for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

16 Aug 20211h 16min

This week Simone Biles dropped out of competing for US gymnastics in the Olympics this week due to mental health concerns and we talked to TWO comedians and former gymnasts, Sylvie Borschel and Dylan Adler (welcum back!) about how they feel about Simone dropping out, the internets response to it, and the  gymnastics culture in general. The good, the bad, the dark ugly, and how it shaped them as children.  TW: Sexual Assault/ childhood SA   Follow Dylan @DylanAdler_ and Sylvie @Sylvs Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and @RemyKassimir  Sign up for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

10 Aug 20211h 6min

Remy and fellow Twihard comedian/podcaster Gabby Bryan dig into The Twilight Saga (now on Netflix) and WHY we love it so much despite its heteronormative, hyper religious, borderline pedophilic themes. We talk about how it affected us as teens as well as how we've started seeing things differently and changed our minds on a great deal of things ie Edward or Jacob and what age would we want to get turned at? CW: We've got more bleeps in this episode about A TWEEN BOOK than we have in any other episode because of the repeated casual mentions of SA.  Follow Gabby @GabbyIsBryan Follow us at @HowCumPodcast and @RemyKassimir  Sign up for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

3 Aug 20211h 13min