30 Catch Up With Rem

Pardon this late-in-the-day post, we were celebrating Charlotte's 26th BIRTHDAY but this one is amazing and worth the wait. Remy sits down with the amazing Buck Angel. This motivational speaker, film maker, human rights activist, adult film star, and the first transgender man to win AVN's Performer of the Year award in 2007 has completely stolen our hearts. We discuss so many aspects of the trans male experience and dive into Buck's past and personal experiences; undergoing top surgery at a time where it was not common, a messy divorce with a woman who challenged his gender identity, and Buck's childhood relationship with his dad and how it has grown. We discuss if changes in gender affect changes in sexuality, what "binders" and "pack-and-pees" are and if they are safe to use, the safety of different medical sex-change procedures, how to hook up with a trans man, dealing with periods as a trans man, and so much more. Buck preaches loving yourself and has created an amazing brand of sex toys and a dating website buckangeldating.com, all with trans, non-binary, and gender non-conforming people in mind. We talk pussy power and a crazy story about Buck's appearance on The Tyra Banks Show. And of course, Buck shares his first time cumming and squirting stories - it's a blast. Trigger warning: mutilation, rape, and abuse are all mentioned during this episode Click to watch Buck's films: Sexing the Trans Man, Conversations with Transmen, & Mr. Angel Click to see Buck's TMZ appearances -- Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @Charkasstic and follow Buck @BuckAngel This episode has 30 MINUTES of EXTRAS available on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways: 1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast! 2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners! 3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social: Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

26 Maj 20191h 13min

Episode 20 of every season means Ben is here! Remy talks to her boyfriend and his ROOMMATES; brothers Volkan and Cenk, who she essentially lives with as well. We discuss sharing a living space (especially with siblings), everyone's weird pooping habits, and having sex with other people in the apartment. We chat about what signs might mean that your roommate is fucking, losing your virginity in a foreign country, and who the messiest one in the apartment is! We also deep dive into Charlotte's research on the recent wave of abortion restrictions, decipher what they individually mean, and suggest ways in which you can donate your time and money to help. Remy opens up about her own abortion, the beginning of her relationship with Ben, and how Charlotte made Ben define the relationship with Remy. Also, coming soon: How Cum website and merchandise! ***FOR INFORMATION ON HOW TO HELP, SCROLL TO THE BOTTOM! -- Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic and follow Ben DeMarco @bennydnyc and his shows @fatbabylive This episode has EXTRAS on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways: 1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast! 2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners! 3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social: Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast Website - www.RemyKassimir.com *** WHAT TO DO TO HELP RE ABORTION BAN: https://www.thecut.com/2019/05/how-to-help-alabama-6-week-abortion-ban-georgia.html ...Donate to local, grassroots organizations Niationwide organizations: Planned Parenthood, NARAL, and the ACLU help but it is more important to go local. Local Organizations: Access Reproductive Care - Southeast: ARC is a volunteer organization that helps families in 12 states across the southeast access reproductive care. National Network of Abortion Funds: NNAF is a network of more than 80 funds in at least 38 states that seeks to eliminate economic barriers for low-income individuals seeking an abortion. The Yellowhammer Fund: Based in Alabama, Yellowhammer not only provides funding for abortions at one of the city's three clinics, but also helps with other barriers to access patients may face, such as travel or lodging. (Yellowhammer is part of NNAF.) Mississippi Reproductive Freedom Fund: Run entirely by volunteers, the Mississippi Reproductive Freedom Fund helps people access abortion, and provides both support and resources to parents. Women Have Options: This Ohio-based organization provides financial assistance and support to low-income patients seeking reproductive care, abortion included. National Asian Pacific American Women's Forum: NAPAWF is a multi-issue community-organizing and policy-advocacy organization that fights for policy changes that would benefit women, transgender, and non-binary Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders. Volunteer as a clinic escort. If you live in a state with a restrictive abortion ban — or nearby one — one tangible way to support abortion rights is to become a clinic escort. Find out more here.

19 Maj 20191h 8min

This week Remy sits down with her wildly talented, hilarious, and similarly named friend Ramy Youssef. This stand up/writer/actor has not only been on Late Night with Stephen Colbert, has a stand-up special coming out on HBO, but he also has a new Hulu TV series out (called Ramy) that the New York times has called a "revolutionary comedy." Having grown up Egyptian-American in a Muslim family, Ramy tells Remy about grappling with his faith while being surrounded by the pressures and temptations of the average 20-something. We chat about everything from the anxieties of casual sex to how Ramy's sense of self was affected after 9/11. He's the best. ALSO Ramy tries Charlotte's Helix mattress and loves it. Everyone should get one. --- Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @ramy We are so excited to partner with Helix this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways: 1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast! 2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners! 3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social: Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

12 Maj 201954min

Trigger Warning: rape and assault. We want you to enjoy our content, but please make sure to take care of yourself; some of the following material can be sensitive to some listeners. During this emotional, inspiring, (and still incredibly funny) episode, the incomparable Fran Drescher (The Nanny!) opens up about how she turns pain into purpose: surviving uterine cancer and the struggle of attempting to convince doctors of the pain she was feeling; managing herself and her emotions through two divorces, having a gay ex-husband, and living through the trauma of the sexual assault and violence she suffered throughout her life. We discuss how she has recently started/ and is crushing stand up comedy, the comedians who inspire her, and the extremely important work she is doing with CancerSchmancer.org. Fran shares her thoughts about sex toys, finding fantasies to get your mojo running, her mother catching her with her hands "down there" as a child and how much she loves penises, now and forever. We discuss how "Women of a Certain Age" DO still love sex, why it may be beneficial to have "a man for every chapter," and Fran gives us a life altering tip from her Shaman on self care. Also, Remy smokes a joint in Fran's house! --- Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @officialfrandrescher We are so excited to partner with Helix this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways: 1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast! 2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners! 3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social: Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

5 Maj 20191h 12min

Thank you, thank you to everyone who came out our first ever LIVE show this past Thursday. We SOLD out and are definitely going to do more of these bad boys. Follow us @howcumpodcast for updates about future shows! In this episode Remy talks to comedian Eitan Levine about how he won an AVN award (porn award!) for his Hamilton inspired film: Hamiltoe. Charlotte's voice is out from all the fun at the live show but Eitan tells us about surviving cancer as a child, growing up as a grandchild of Holocaust survivors, and an incredible story about his kickass grandmother. We also talk learning about sex through rabbinical stories, being actively celibate until late in life, who is fucking at the circus, male infertility & male birth control. --- Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @eitanthegoalie LISTEN TO NANNY! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways: I 1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast! 2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners! 3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social: Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

28 Apr 201954min

Nanny and Remy's house flooded TWICE this week but it's ok because our LIVE show is Thursday and we c*nt wait to meet you guys. We ALSO got to record this awesome episode with Remy's two powerhouse women: 1) Hannah Berner, host of the comedy mental health podcast Berning in Hell, star on this season of Summer House on Bravo and badass bitch who opted out of professional tennis, and 2) Gabrielle Bluestone, Writer and Executive Producer of FYRE: The Greatest Party That Never Happened" on Netflix. We discuss very universal topics such as going to the Hamptons and playing tennis, and more relatable topics such as how competition in sports applies to life and how traditional gender roles affect us. Hannah gives us a peek behind Summer House's walls, and Gabrielle explains our "keeping up with the Joneses" culture. We also talk about pets, people who seem successful but might just have a trust fund, and how to be your realest self in a world of facades. *Stay tuned until the end of the episode: this one has some post-song goodies! -- Don't miss the LIVE SHOW! Join us at Stand Up NY on April 25 at 7:30. Use our promocode "How Cum" for a 25% off discount. Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @beingbernz @g_bluestone(T) @gbluestone (IG) This episode has EXTRAS which will be available on Patreon.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways: 1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast! 2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners! 3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social: Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

21 Apr 20191h 13min

Tickets are almost sold out for our first live podcast/ stand up show! Join us at Stand Up NY on April 25 at 7:30. Use our promocode "How Cum" for a 25% off discount. ...AND GET EXCITED! This episode is one that many of you have requested. Partners in love and life, Chris and Charlotte Rose; aka the Pleasure Mechanics teach us ANAL 101! After hearing what they have to say, you'll know what to put in your basic (anal) tool kit, how unlikely "gaping" actually is, and how to answer, "is there a 'wall of shit' waiting for me?" The Pleasure Mechanics explain how our culture damages the idea of manliness and anal play, as well as its pornification. They brilliantly clue us into the two anal sphincters, how anal can be pleasurable for anyone, and give us tricks for good prostate play, pegging & anal masturbation. Men: We teach you what "Man Box" is and how your dick is bigger than you think! --- Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic and Chris/ Charlotte Rose @pleasure_mechanics AGAIN: LIVE SHOW! 4/25 at Stand Up NY in NYC! Use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 25% off tickets. Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways: 1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast! 2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners! 3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social: Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

14 Apr 20191h 11min

Make sure to get your tickets for our first LIVE PODCAST & stand up show on April 25th at 7:30. (Doors open @ 7) Use our promo code "How Cum" for a 25% off discount. Until then, listen to this awesome episode with wildly hilarious entertainer & RuPaul's Drag Race All Star alumnus Katya Zamolodchikova, also known as Brian McCook. This episode is EVERYTHING! We touch on drag life and a dish soap make up remover tip. We also discuss fearing competition, lacking a gay mentor, the pros and cons of hooking up with fans, and experimentally sticking a finger in the ass. Katya explains how a recent relapse in addiction occurred and the effect it had on her/Brian's lives. Also we shared our experiences with the seriousness of mental health issues and how we cope with it all. Follow Katya and her podcast Whimsically Volatile: @Katya_Zamo/ @katyaandcraig and and go see her NOW on her tour "Help Me I'm Dying" , on Viceland's The Trixie and Katya Show and on VH1's Grown & Sexy. Follow us at @RemyKassimir, @Charkasstic, & @howcumpodcast --- AGAIN: LIVE SHOW! 4/25 at Stand Up NY in NYC! Use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 25% off tickets. We couldn't be more excited to be partnering with Roman, Helix Sleep and Sweet Vibrations this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum Keep Roman Swipes in your back pocket for longer, better sex and get yours fast with FREE 2-day shipping by visiting Getroman.com/HOWCUM Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG! Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways: 1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast! 2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners! 3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social: Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast Website - www.RemyKassimir.com

7 Apr 20191h 6min