36 Betsy And Remy Go To A Sex Show! - Cirque Du Squirt (Betsy Carroll + Lola Jean)

Today's guest is Dr. Tara, a Los Angeles-based sex and relationship coach, tenured professor of sexual communication, award-winning sex researcher, TEDx speaker, TV Host of Celebs Go Dating, and the #1 sex educator on TikTok Dr. Tara talks us through her many different first time c*mming stories-- because she can and has c*m in SO many different ways-- internal o's, external o's and CERVICAL o's as well (which we have never heard of until now)! She also teaches us how to achieve sexual confidence, how to love your body, affirmations you can say to yourself, and how to practice sexual meditation. We also chat about the different types of sex therapy, and how you know when it's time to do it.    If you liked this episode -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Dr. Tara @luvbites.co Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

1 Feb 202457min

Iconic actress, writer, and comedian Rachel Bloom stops by the podcast for a TRULY c*mazing episode and we cannot wait for you to hear it! Rachel is best known for co-creating and starring as Rebecca Bunch in musical comedy-drama series Crazy Ex-Girlfriend which won her numerous accolades, including a Golden Globe Award, a TCA Award, a Critics' Choice Television Award, and a Primetime Emmy Award.  We talk about how her character Rebecca (and Rachel and Remy) have all experienced limerence -- an all-consuming and unreciprocated crush -- and break down where limerence comes from, how to become less limerent, and the differences between limerence and love.  Rachel also opens up about her sexual health, from educating  herself as a child, to current changes in her vulva post-pregnancy, attending pelvic floor therapy, a new diagnosis about her cl*t, and what she's planning to do about it! If you liked this episode -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  For more on limerence visit The Attachment Project and take the quiz we were talking about HERE Follow Rachel @RachelDoesStuff Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

21 Jan 20241h 6min

This episode is all about IVF! Remy welcomes back Season 1 Episode 2 guest and host of the popular dating + relationships podcast We Met at Acme- Lindsey Metselaar! Lindsey tells us all about trying to concieve, getting diagnosed with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, and her and her husband's journey with IVF (In Vitro Fertilization). We hear about the different types of IVF, what types of people might require IVF, the differences between IVF, IUI, and ICI, and a range for what the procedure can cost. Lindsey also lets us in on her experiences with pregnancy sex, sex and sobriety, masturbation after getting married, orgasm droughts and so more. Finally, she gives Remy an assignment that reminds us of her first appearance on How C*m 6 years ago! CW: Remy discusses the current state of affairs in the Middle East from :30-6:30  Follow Lindsey @LindzMetz @WeMetAtAcme Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

20 Okt 20231h 3min

Last week Samantha Jones' brief orgasm drought inspired us to talk about menopause-- even though that is not what caused *her* drought. But Cumpanions have been vying for a menopause episode for a WHILE and it's finally here! We chat with stand up comedy veteran and creator of "Funny Women of a Certain Age" Carole Montgomery about being a woman of a certain age; barriers, breakthroughs, how menopause went for her, all the symptoms that can come with menopause, how to deal with it, and the fact that sex lives DO NOT STOP after 50. We also talk about the Golden Girls and the OG Samantha, Blanche Devereaux and how her first orgasm was allegedly after menopause (shocking!) and how that could possibly be a real thing.    Get the cooling blanket that Carole sugguested here! Follow Carole @carolemontgomerycomic Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

30 Sep 20231h 16min

Much like the episodes have slowed down, so too have Remy's orgasms. And OH BOY are they connected. In this episode you can hear all about Remy's FIVE month long orgasm drought; why she thinks it happened, what she has been trying to do to fix it, and what she plans to do in the future. We welcome back Season 1+2 producer/researcher and Remy's sister Charlotte Kassimir to talk about it, read Companion stories about their own droughts/ how they have fixed them, and Charlotte gives Remy a new assignment for this new chapter.   Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

20 Sep 20231h 5min

Before Twitter was X, Kristofer Thomas (comedian, actor, and screenwriter) shared his story of being a pack-a-day cigarette smoker for years and how the promise of top surgery is the thing that finally made him quit. We discuss that story, the benefits of gender affirming care (beyond quitting cigs), what gender affirming care means a different ages, and how many steps it actually takes to get prescribed testosterone.  Read Kristofer's Piece "Dad Used to Have Boobs (And They Were Kind of Big) Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir, @KristoferThomas Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

19 Aug 202352min

Today's guest is Tyomi Morgan-- a Certified Authentic Tantra Coach, sex blogger/coach and creator of The Cowgirl Workout. We are diving into the workout program she created centered around dick riding! Tyomi teaches us how to do it, the benefits of it, and how to feel comfortable getting on top. We also discuss the importance of breathing control, hip isolation, choosing the right position, and making adjustments. Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir, @realglamazontyomi Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE

19 Aug 20231h 12min