37 Crazy Horny Ex-GF: Limerence, Love and Lust (Rachel Bloom)

Did you know that only 20% of schools in the US are teaching Sex Ed right now? That is not enough schools. To fix that I talked to two sex educators, Dr. Andrew Porter (The Sex Wrap Podcast) & Andrea Barrica, founder of O.School.  We talk how to manage STIs, good ways to introduce toys to people for the first time, and what the internal structure of the clitoris actually looks like! Did you know doctors only discovered it in 1998? This is crazy. We also answer some fan questions! Follow us @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @andreabarrica @odotschool @thesexwrap Like HOW CUM? Rate, review & subscribe!  Want to learn more? Go to O.School or listen to The Sex Wrap on Acast! AND SHARE THIS EPISODE WITH YOUR FRIENDS, THEY NEED IT! Extras on Patreon.com/HowCum

14 Okt 201849min

I interviewed "Liz," a How Cum SUPERFAN who is staying anonymous. Liz is a long time listener and did ALL of my pre-orgasm assignments (1-6). We discuss how all of the assignments went for her and then we talk about what we did last night...  I took her to a sex party! It was crazy. You will learn about sensation play, ASMR, electric shocks, and what went down (pun VERY intended).  Follow us! @howcumpodcast @remykassimir Need more/ Want to support the pod? Get bonus content and donate money to me! www.Patreon.com/HowCum  Website mentioned in this episode : www.bellesa.co

8 Okt 201854min

This week I have THREE amazing guests. First, journalist Hannah Soyer calls in & we talk about her article, "What Sex Is Like With A Disability" from Cosmopolitan Magazine. Hannah, the creator of the This Body is Worthy Project discusses living with Spinal Muscular Atrophy, the dangers of being a disabled woman surrounding sex, and finding sexual agency with masturbation. I then talked to comedian Chris Crespo & writer Spencer Williams. Chris was born with Complicated Syndactyly & stars in the awesome web series Hand Jobs, despite being born with no forearms. Spencer has Cerebral Palsey and is currently writing about sex & disability for Vice. We talk about services that assist with sex for the disabled, fear of rejection, sex positions that are the most comfortable and wheelchairs: giant cockblock, or wonderful accessory?  (CW) Gendered language, r*pe culture, cheating, Leonardo DiCaprio, offensive language Follow us: @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @cresposts @soyernotsawyer @djspencermusic Wanna support the pod? Sign up to Patreon.com/HowCum RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE!!

30 Sep 20181h 7min

What is polyamory and how do you do it?* I asked writer Charyn Pfeuffer, who practices polyamory and open relationship styles. Over the past two decades, Charyn's sex-positive writing has appeared in more than 100 media outlets, including Marie Claire, Playboy, Refinery29, The Washington Post, Thrillist & Forbes. On this episode we discuss it all: Are people born poly? Can you be polyamorous and married? What about having children? We also define different types of polyamorous relationships and terms such as "primary partner", "nesting partner", and "fluid bonding." *This episode is a redo, sorry for the re-post, but was necessary. (Explained in ep)   Books Charyn recommends for those curious about in entering into polyamory: 1. The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy 2. More Than Two by Eve Rickert 3. Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan 4. Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski 5. Eight Things I Wish I'd Known About Polyamory by Cunning Minx  --- Follow us! On Instagram/Twitter @howcumpodcast @remykassimir @charynpfeuffer  Want to support the pod? Patreon.com/HowCum

30 Sep 201850min

This week I am answering YOUR questions. Things like: "how do you sit when you use ___ sex toy?" "What really went down during that tantric massage?" "Is it normal if I used to cum and can't anymore?" and more! CW: Gendered language, offensive language, fatphobic language Have questions of your own? Write to us @howcumpodcast IF YOU LIKE/LOVE THIS PODCAST SUBSCRIBE/RATE/REVIEW!! Nice comments are oh so appreciated. Want extra content or a shoutout on the pod? Or watch a LIVE episode Check out www.Patreon.com/howcum and support How Cum! We appreciate every dollar given

23 Sep 201857min

Celebrating my birthday with a jumbo episode about sex, sobriety, and the joy of handjobs! Seamus Kirst, journalist and author of Shitfaced joins me as I interview him and my friend; comedian Sydnee Washington! We talk about sober dating, going to rehab in highschool, delayed ejaculation and the Real Housewives we're most worried about. Then Seamus and I (both Virgos) are joined by ANOTHER Virgo friend Britni Diamond. We talk mutual masturbation, revealing strange fantasies to people, and maintaining friendships after becoming sober! CW: Relapse, gendered language, trans exclusionary language, gay slurs, fatphobia, depression/suicide/ suicidal ideation, SA fantasy, mention of pedophiles, Mel Gibson, "virginity" Please rate, review & subscribe FOR MY BIRTHDAY! follow us @remykassimir @howcumpodcast @seamuskirst @britnidiamond @justsydbw

9 Sep 20181h 33min

This week's episode features adult entertainer Sofia Rose & Actress/Comedian Alyssa Limperis (Crazy In Bed Podcast) . Body positivity is on the menu; we discuss everything from being a BBW (big beautiful woman) to battling an eating disorder and what body image can do to your sex life. We also talk old-school MySpace, ugly armpits, depression, & how you don't have to find the right person, you just have to find the right person for right now. CW: eating disorders, fatphobia, gendered language, "virginity," and suicidal ideation Follow us! @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir @AlyssaLimp @IloveSofiaRose EXTRAS will be out on Patreon on Wednesday -- we reaaaally had fun and over-recorded this one (hence why it's so long) and I have so many fun extras so subscribe to www.Patreon.com/HowCum if you want to listen to those or if you want to watch the Post Coitus that accompanies the episode! RATE! REVIEW! SUBSCRIBE!

26 Aug 20181h 5min

NYC comedians Pauline Murphy and Jeena Bloom stop by and we have a heated debate regarding dick preference; to circumcise or not to circumcise? That is the question. We also discuss what it is like to live as a trans woman and be able to have EVERY type of orgasm. We also talk about Pauline's predicament - she's only cum four times. Ever. How Cum? Let's find out. CW: Transphobia, slurs, gendered language, fatphobia, shooting, dark humor Follow us! @RemyKassimir @JeenaBloom @WhiskeyBurrito RATE! REVIEW! SUBSCRIBE! --- Want more? We have EXTRAS on www.Patreon.com/HowCum - become a Patron for as little as $1 a month!

19 Aug 201850min