65: Dumb Blonde: Baby Girl Bella- Sex Work, Fem Dom & Spirituality
Dumb Blonde30 Sep 2020

65: Dumb Blonde: Baby Girl Bella- Sex Work, Fem Dom & Spirituality

Baby Girl Bella, one of OnlyFan’s top 0.04% of content creators, talks to Bunnie about what it’s like being in the sex work industry and how she got her start on OnlyFans. She also explains what it’s like to do Fem Dom and how a spiritual awakening with Ayahuasca changed her mentality and her lifestyle.

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Takeaways:

  • Bella was born in Wisconsin, but grew up in Arizona
    • Her dad passed from a heroin overdose when she was 8 years old
    • Her mom and stepdad got arrested for drug trafficking when she was in high school
    • She pressed on, graduated high school, and went on to college
    • The first boy she kissed ended up passing away from a heroin overdose as well
    • Bella moved to Charlotte, NC
      • She was in the party scene and began working doing sex work
        • Back then, her drug of choice was Molly
      • She started off doing cam work and modeling
    • She recently moved to California and loves it
    • OnlyFans gives Bella the opportunity to be independent and creative in the industry
    • Bella doesn’t consider herself ever being a drug addict, but she drank every single day; she was mostly a social drinker and drank a lot when she was a dancer
      • She realized after a while that drinking was giving her social anxiety
    • After being a dancer in Charlotte, she moved back to Arizona and started doing Fem Dom
      • Bella explains small penis humiliation: some guys don’t even have a small penis but guys that are into being subbed want to be controlled and not be the boss
      • There’s a fetish for everything- from ball busting to cum eating instructions
    • Bella did Fem Dom cam work for about 6 months and then her friend showed her how to use premium snapchat
      • She did snapchat for about 2 years before she started making good money from it
    • Bella had a scary experience with a guy that was trying to manipulate her into being sold into sex slavery and try to make it seem normal
    • 2 years ago, Bella started doing really well on snapchat and bought herself braces and her first boob job
    • She created an OnlyFans and after a period of trial and error with pricing and content, it started to really grow and become successful
      • Consistency is key to success with OnlyFans
      • The best thing about OnlyFans is you can do whatever you want and offer whatever you are comfortable with
    • Sometimes there are odd custom requests from subscribers; the weirdest thing that Bunnie has ever had someone request before is that she hang herself from a door
    • Bella has had guys send her videos of them putting baseball bats up their butts
    • Bella caters to the stepbrother/ stepsister taboo fetish that people have
    • About a year and a half ago, Bella had a spiritual awakening:
      • She was dating a millionaire who got arrested and it was really traumatic for Bella
      • Around a month later, she looked on YouTube searching for self-help videos to help her focus and better herself using natural remedies
      • She found videos on meditation and became a raw vegan, quit smoking weed, and started doing yoga and meditating
        • She even booked a trip to do Ayahuasca in Costa Rica
        • Ayahuasca is plant medicine that has DMT in it and allows you to bring you back to your soulful self and shows you who you have become through your life experiences
        • It’s a very intense process but it heals you on a spiritual level

Quotes:

“I believe the things that have happened in my life have happened for me to be where I am now” - Bella

“I don’t think people in the world understand how strong we (girls in the industry) are” – Bunnie

“I’ve used sex work to heal my past sexual trauma” – Bella

“Hard work pays off- you’re gonna get it if you want it” – Bella

“The most spiritual women and the coolest women I’ve ever met are in sex work” – Bunnie

Mentioned:

Bella

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62: Dumb Blonde: Keta Musik- From Addiction to Songbird

62: Dumb Blonde: Keta Musik- From Addiction to Songbird

Keta Musik and Bunnie talk about Keta’s come up from her fight with addiction to becoming a successful musician.  Keta gives a sneak peak of her amazing talent as well as some details on her upcoming project with Jelly and Viking Barbie.     Watch Full Episodes & More: www.dumbblondeunrated.com Takeaways: Bunnie met Keta through her friend, Viking Barbie, and they instantly clicked and have been friends ever since Jelly, Viking Barbie, and Keta are working on some new music that Jelly is producing Keta has always loved music and moved to LA when she was 19 years old She met Viking Barbie in an AA meeting and they became great friends They started writing a song together and instantly grew an appreciation for each other’s talent Keta was born in a small town called Red Bluff, CA She got put on parole at 19 and bought a trailer and was selling meth to make ends meet She got suspended from school for getting into a fight and got into an accident when she borrowed her neighbors quad and was out riding in a field. Keta flipped the vehicle and fractured almost everything on her right side.  She received settlement money and started selling drugs She quickly realized she didn’t want to be a drug dealer and that she needed a lifestyle change; LA was her way out When Keta got to LA, she was 19 and one of her “friends” got her into a sticky situation with drugs once again Keta grew up without structure and had to figure out most of her life on her own She learned how to boss up and take control of her life through dancing Keta’s drug addiction nearly ruined her life. She got sober for a while and would then spiral out again Between meth, heroine, and suboxone, her life was a constant roller coaster dealing with addiction Keta even got arrested for trafficking heroine at one point Keta’s constant battle with drug addiction and breaking the law led to her finally getting into rehab and seeking professional help The first week she was in rehab, she actually got kicked out for fraternizing with another patient After leaving the rehab facility, Keta asked to be referred to another place because she knew she would die if she didn’t take getting sober seriously She was 3 years clean and relapsed The one thing that stuck with Keta throughout her life struggles was always music Keta really respects independent musicians who have to work hard and pay for everything they put into their music The music industry is a beast; it can be a shady, scary place Bunnie and Jelly want to help Keta bring her music to the forefront and allow herself to be creative in the way that she wants If you’re struggling with addiction, Keta says just hold on and pray. Spirituality is a huge thing that can help you through anything in life.  Never be afraid to ask for help.  Don’t give up on the work in progress that you are- life gives us beautiful things in unexpected ways.    Quotes:  “Every time I started shooting drugs, God arrested me” – Keta “I’m a professional partier” – Keta “I felt like I was Robin Hood; I would rob from the rich and give to the poor… and I was the poor one” – Bunnie “[Music] was the light at the end of the tunnel” – Keta   Mentioned:   Keta Musik Instagram | Twitter   Viking Barbie Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | YouTube   Check out Bunnie: Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | YouTube | OnlyFansSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

9 Sep 202037min

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