The Feminist Dating Show30 Juli 2024

207. Coming out, trusting yourself after a breakup, and finding love with my client, Liz

Are you wondering, "How do I pick up the pieces after this horrible breakup?" This week, Lily dives straight into an inspiring conversation with Liz, a former client who turned the heartbreak of a broken engagement into a powerful journey of healing and finding new love. Liz keeps it real, sharing her experiences of embracing pain, seeking support, and rebuilding self-trust.

Together, Lily and Liz explore the transformative process of becoming your main character through the work of Main Character Dating, formerly known as Brazen Breakthrough. Returning to the podcast after her first appearance in 2023, Liz brings a full-circle perspective, offering wisdom and insights for anyone navigating post-breakup life or re-entering the dating world.

Listen in as Liz reflects on how the principles of Main Character Dating have evolved with her, revealing how embracing self-discovery and vulnerability can be your greatest strengths.

We get into:

Picking up the pieces after a shitty breakup
Liz shares her raw experience: "I had to fully feel all my pain," emphasizing the importance of embracing and processing emotions to heal
When you show up with your feelings, the right people show up for you as well
Navigating the desire/shame see-saw means trusting your gut and understanding there's no perfect timeline for getting back into dating
Liz explores, "What does self-trust look like for you now?" sharing how she found courage and rebuilt self-trust

Links:

✨RSVP for Lily's Free Training - 3 Steps to Attract the Right Partner as a "Late Bloomer" ✨

Lily's book: Thank You, More Please

Show notes:
http://datebrazen.com/blog/self-trust-and-love-after-a-breakup-with-liz

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