208. Why I want you to make the first move 100% of the time (and how to do it successfully)

208. Why I want you to make the first move 100% of the time (and how to do it successfully)

Hot-take: You should make the first move 100% of the time. If you read that and feel a sense of fear, that's okay! In this episode, Lily breaks down everything from rocking a proactive mindset to embracing those awkward moments and showing yourself some self-compassion so you can confidently make the first move every time.

This is the most passionate lesson Lily teaches, and she has seen a major difference in clients' ability to attract the right partner. Tune in to learn how to transform your dating life with bold confidence and get the deets on more resources to help you along the way.

You'll learn:

  • How to embrace the awkwardness, recognize your inner power, and remember you're resilient AF.
  • "You can't say the wrong thing to the right person."
  • Take Your Shot: Every attempt brings you closer to what you want because you're actively attracting and asking for it.
  • Use the S.O.F.T. method to move through rejection: Self-compassion, Own Your Needs, Feel Your Feelings, and remember that Thoughts Are Not Facts.
  • Creative and practical suggestions to help you take that first step!

Links:

RSVP for Lily's Free Training - 3 Steps to Attract the Right Partner as a "Late Bloomer"

Main Character Dating

Lily's book: Thank You, More Please

162. The Complete Dating Detox Guide

Kristin Neff's Self-compassion.org

Show notes:
http://datebrazen.com/blog/make-the-first-move-every-time

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